I remembered that I had started doing this consistently last year in August! Then I was looking back through the archives of the things that have made me happy, and I realized I skipped a day in April. Oh no! But I’m gonna cheat a little and say it’s close enough. :-)
Allison's Life List
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1. Get out more
1 entry . 4 cheers698 people -
2. be less distracted
9 entries . 18 cheers21 people -
3. keep in touch with friends
2 entries . 6 cheers705 people -
4. Keep up with my laundry
7 entries . 10 cheers147 people -
5. meditate daily
1 entry . 16 cheers3,980 people -
6. cook more
6 entries . 2 cheers1,927 people -
7. travel around the world for a couple of years with my love
2 entries . 12 cheers79 people -
8. Write more
1 entry . 11 cheers3,493 people -
9. eat healthier
2 entries . 11 cheers10,078 people -
10. buy all the nifty gadgets i want
6 cheers11 people -
11. be a better listener
1 entry . 6 cheers751 people -
12. learn to drive
2 entries . 8 cheers6,117 people -
13. Become a better public speaker
3 entries . 12 cheers307 people -
14. Have a baby
2 team members . 5 cheers5,706 people -
15. have children
2 cheers4,122 people -
16. get out of debt
2 entries . 12 cheers10,987 people -
17. help promote 43 things
1 entry . 7 cheers2 people -
18. improve Daily Joys
8 entries . 6 cheers1 person -
19. grow Daily Joys
5 entries . 5 cheers1 person -
20. see the northern lights
1 entry . 7 cheers16,851 people -
21. learn to dance
2 entries . 8 cheers6,559 people -
22. Learn to Dance; Take a Dance Course with my Significant Other
2 entries . 4 cheers31 people -
23. dance all night and then dance some more
1 entry . 10 cheers107 people -
24. receive a letter from Hogwarts apologizing for the late owl but informing me that i am actually a wizard.
7 cheers830 people -
25. see "Firefly" put back on the air
1 entry . 7 cheers44 people -
26. become a guitar hero
8 cheers16 people -
27. Give 1000 cheers
3 entries . 4 cheers183 people -
28. 42
5 cheers21 people -
29. become a morning person.
3 entries . 8 cheers1,443 people -
30. list 43 men i wouldn't kick outta bed
10 entries . 4 cheers57 people -
31. complete my collection of all the Disney classics
1 entry . 3 cheers4 people -
32. clean my room and keep it clean
3 entries . 2 cheers465 people -
33. write down the things I love about people; read it when I'm upset with them
2 entries . 8 cheers13 people -
34. Read one book a month
4 entries . 8 cheers703 people
In high school and college it was so much easier because everyone was there already. Now I have to go out and find them. I moved out here with my fiance since he got his dream job (Google!), and it’s mostly been great. We have a bunch of friends out here, so that helps. Unfortunately, just about all of them love programming and love talking about it. I’ve always had plenty of friends who love talking about it, but there has always been a balance in the past. I didn’t realize how important that was until recently.
So, where can I find friends who won’t go on about programming and algorithms in Silicon Valley? Hrmm…
I’m giving this up because 1) getting a job is not all that essential for me (I am beyond lucky for this) and 2) I really want to keep myself open. I want to do something I like which may or may not end up being a job. Someday I certainly want to have kids, and I enjoy being around kids, but there are many other great possibilities for me. Maybe I’ll get a job in child care, but it’s not going to be my goal
