so i realized the other day that everyone i know is unhappy with their life in some way (except for maybe one). and i dont mean just dissatisfied, but really unhappy. this cannot be healthy for me.
Calentura's Life List
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1. get rid of things in my life that no longer make me happy
1 entry . 3 cheers1 person -
2. find a church that isn't always about what not to do
4 entries . 8 cheers1 person -
3. get my ass back to the gym
5 entries . 5 cheers1 person -
4. not eat the crappy food they sell by my job and bring lunch
3 entries . 3 cheers1 person -
5. stop being so damn selfish
1 cheer15 people -
6. learn to belly dance
5 cheers2,077 people -
7. stop hanging out with broke ass people
2 entries . 3 cheers1 person -
8. learn to forgive
4 cheers369 people -
9. pay off my car
2 cheers464 people -
10. call my dad
1 entry . 4 cheers15 people -
11. be debt free
1 entry . 3 cheers1,635 people -
12. make my own jewelry
1 cheer147 people -
13. Read the Bible
2,561 people -
14. get to places on time
2 entries . 1 cheer14 people -
15. Invest
1 cheer674 people -
16. excuse myself from boring, meaningless, mundane conversation instead of nodding and smiling while thinking "shutup!"
1 entry . 5 cheers2 people -
17. make love in the rain
2 cheers2,005 people -
18. learn to SCUBA dive
2,250 people -
19. play the piano again
2 cheers420 people -
20. Go parasailing
1 entry597 people -
21. move out of New York City
2 entries . 1 cheer49 people -
22. wake up when my alarm clock goes off
6,989 people -
23. Create a budget, and stick with it
2 entries . 2 cheers385 people -
24. open a business
3 cheers48 people -
25. buy fresh flowers once a week and keep them by my bed
3 entries . 3 cheers3 people -
26. visit my cousin in california
2 entries . 1 cheer1 person -
27. Get my eyebrows done by Anastasia
1 entry1 person -
28. invent something really useless (like slap bracelets or pogs) to make an easy million
2 entries2 people -
29. light candles more often
1 entry . 2 cheers4 people -
30. learn to play tennis
1 cheer493 people -
31. avoid re-living the past in my head
2 entries . 4 cheers1 person -
32. Quit Smoking
4 entries . 7 cheers7,154 people -
33. figure out what my passion in life is
1 entry . 1 cheer1 person -
34. surround myself with shiny happy people
1 entry . 1 cheer1 person
Recent entries
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1 year ago
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1 year ago
i decided that’s my problem. there really isn’t anything that i absolutely love to do, or to get my panties twisted about. nothing that’s good for me anyway. but seriously…
why bother
1 year ago
im not really giving up, just not interested anymore. i know too many unhappily married people and i use to think oh, my marriage will be different but who knows. and i still have plenty of time to enjoy the single independent life before taking on the responsibility of marriage and family. all of my friends and family have been married in the past five years, so the pressure was on. but im now seeing past the fairy-tale stuff.
