To begin the process of transforming bad habits to spiritual power, we must recognize that the pain of the bad habit is worse than the pain of healing. Cultivating good habits is difficult, but it is more difficult to maintain bad habits.
CheatingSheila's Life List
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1. stop cheating
22 entries . 60 cheers69 people -
2. Learn Spanish
6 entries . 14 cheers15,443 people -
3. Manage my PCOS
2 entries . 3 cheers1 person -
4. Be fluent in Italian
5 entries . 18 cheers305 people -
5. create more
2 entries . 21 cheers106 people -
6. paint a mural
2 entries . 19 cheers284 people -
7. learn chinese
4 entries . 2 cheers2,368 people -
8. cook more
4 entries . 12 cheers1,927 people -
9. Own my own business
3 entries . 12 cheers1,484 people -
10. stop my sexual addiction
13 entries . 21 cheers3 people -
11. Improve my French
2 entries . 8 cheers1,346 people -
12. paint again
2 entries . 17 cheers138 people -
13. stop my internet addiction
3 entries . 11 cheers84 people -
14. take african dance classes
2 entries . 16 cheers21 people -
15. learn to sail
2 entries . 12 cheers1,974 people -
16. sing in french
2 entries . 14 cheers2 people -
17. be mindful
4 entries . 13 cheers135 people -
18. Volunteer
2 entries . 12 cheers4,869 people -
19. Write a childern's book in French
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20. be more thankful
8 entries . 8 cheers140 people -
21. swim regularly
3 entries . 4 cheers266 people -
22. Go horseback riding
2 entries . 9 cheers552 people -
23. re-learn german
4 cheers135 people -
24. meditate regularly
1 entry . 13 cheers725 people -
25. yoga 3 times a week
2 entries . 4 cheers17 people -
26. learn more about wine
10 cheers312 people -
27. Take life drawing classes
1 entry . 6 cheers15 people -
28. be financially stable
3 entries . 4 cheers208 people -
29. Explore Nature More
1 entry . 16 cheers1 person -
30. burn all my music onto cds
1 entry . 1 cheer3 people -
31. Own a house in Corsica
2 entries . 2 cheers2 people -
32. Research my French ancestry
2 cheers2 people -
33. study philosophy, history, antropology, geography, politics
1 entry . 3 cheers3 people -
34. take better care of my skin
2 cheers504 people -
35. Try not to bottle up my emotions
5 cheers4 people -
36. See Francis Cabrel in Concert
1 entry . 2 cheers1 person -
37. learn to make sushi
1 entry . 3 cheers721 people -
38. learn Tai Chi
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39. swim under a waterfall
1 cheer144 people -
40. use positive affirmations daily
9 people
So the new/old boyfriend and I broke up before I went to S. America. He basically disappeared on me. He didn’t bother to say goodbye when I left; so I just sent him an e-mail saying that if you want to break up, you got it. While I was away he came to my apartment picked up his key and dropped my stuff off. It broke my heart into a million and one pieces. I came home and we started talking again about after a month. My trust for this guy is gone, but I still care for him. We have so much fun together. I still think he is handsome too. I just don’t have that feeling for him anymore. I’ve been considering going back to the old guy just to make myself feel better. I know it’s not the answer. I just need to stay strong and see if new/old bf can redeem himself.
S. America! I was about the only person in my group that spoke Spanish. I was called the expert! Very cool! Even though I am far from it; I need to study!
