CherryMiniBomb

We’re having a destination wedding! It’s the one thing that we both agreed on. We looked all over town for ideas, churches, and venues but we couldn’t find anything that the both of us liked. Were both set on a certain location and we’re making plans. We just have to save the money. The date is set for early next year. We have too much going on at the moment. We’re expecting our first child this year. I feel the baby kicking now :o)

I’m officially engaged! I have the pretty ring and all. My boyfriend proposed to me a few days before valentines day. Forgot to mention it. So busy with work and school.

I’m 4 months pregnant with my first child. I work full time, and I also go to college full time. I graduate this summer, and I don’t plan on going back to school anytime soon after that. I really want to be SAHM once I have this baby. I know we can do it, I’m just having a hard time convincing my fiance. He’s so used to us living on 2 incomes that he feels like we can’t do it on one. It’s pretty frustrating. I’m already emotional. I cried this morning just thinking about it. I don’t have a problem with daycare, but I want to be the one to care for my baby. And daycare is too expensive. He wants mil to care for the baby while were working. She’s a good grandma, but I want to be the one to care for my child. We already live a busy life, and neither one of us get to spend much time at home. Neither one of us have time to take care of home on a regular basis. Just a little cooking and cleaning here there whenever one of us gets a chance. We both work demanding jobs. I don’t want it to be like this once the baby comes. I don’t know what to do. I ask him if we can work towards it by paying off some debt. He says yes, but I still don’t think he gets where I’m coming from. I don’t know if he can see it any other way than it is. We can make it on his income. We may have to sacrifice a few things like eating out all the time, but that’s okay with me. We did a budget the other day, and we spend way too much on take out food, and eating at restaurants. I can’t stop thinking about it. In a way, he agrees with me but I think he’s only saying it without meaning it.