load the dishwasher at night
empty it in the morning
charge her phone.
do the grocery shopping.
keep the fridge spotless.
keep my bathroom clean.
take my shoes off.
clean the kitchen.
look after the garden.
make sure her favorite water is stocked.
pick up everything i see on the ground from the kids.
buy flowers at the market every week.
she would like…
time to swim.
a new floor.
go to church.
her own desk.
I am really struggling with this goal. I Need to re focus and work harder. But it feels like swimming upstream, and it should feel like swimming downstream. when I was younger (high school, university, then first five years working) it was much easier. I am not sure if it is the demands of my job, my body getting older, or what. I am getting to the point where I want to check this goal off as completed or just give up.
I have fucking had it. I am going to get my 12 things done.
I could be slipping due to chatting.
I slipped for a week due to too many meetings but now I am back on topy.
I am starting to always pick stuff up and put them away.
I guess evening out my mood swings would help.
I guess it would help her a lot if I was to be less argumentative.
I find her cell phone and charge it every night for her, same with the cordless phone. I load the dishwasher every night and empty it every morning as a habit now.
2 plates x 8×5
4 base balls
1 + 30×8 x 5
2 racket plus zero
I will do the kitchen mornings and my study nights.
Last week was probably my best week ever. Pat on the back!