Cora_and_Clarice

is getting her head out of her ass



I'm doing 40 things
 

Cora_and_Clarice's Life List

  1. 1. develop a mentality of abundance
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    1 person
  2. 2. be happy, safe or content every holiday and important milestone of 2012
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    1 person
  3. 3. prioritise with the Pareto principle
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    1 person
  4. 4. eliminate chaos from my life
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    2 people
  5. 5. leave him
    5 entries . 24 cheers
    19 people
  6. 6. proactively stave off depression
    7 entries . 23 cheers
    4 people
  7. 7. always have something to look forward to
    24 entries . 50 cheers
    155 people
  8. 8. experience more of the visual, literary and performing arts
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    1 person
  9. 9. 6 questions for every sunday
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    2 people
  10. 10. Answer the "50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind".
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    1 person
  11. 11. stop trying
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    0 people
  12. 12. only say things once
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    1 person
  13. 13. be more independent
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    643 people
  14. 14. get better at soothing myself
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    0 people
  15. 15. stop comparing myself to others
    4 entries . 5 cheers
    416 people
  16. 16. become a 3D artist
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    2 people
  17. 17. make my first 3D model
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    1 person
  18. 18. teach myself to use Blender
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    1 person
  19. 19. fill an A3 sketchbook with studies
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    1 person
  20. 20. read Ovid's Metamorphoses
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    1 person
  21. 21. read the Iliad
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    38 people
  22. 22. become well-read
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    9 people
  23. 23. Reclaim my spirit from each and every place I have ever left it
    6 entries . 24 cheers
    13 people
  24. 24. befriend my body
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    1 person
  25. 25. feel beautiful
    2 entries . 5 cheers
    2,217 people
  26. 26. improve my posture
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    2,792 people
  27. 27. combat my modern sedentary lifestyle
    5 entries . 10 cheers
    1 person
  28. 28. recover my physical strength
    3 entries . 32 cheers
    1 person
  29. 29. be able to walk to upper campus again
    1 entry . 7 cheers
    1 person
  30. 30. make and keep more happy memories
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    1 person
  31. 31. make a list of 100 things that make me happy.
    2 entries . 16 cheers
    547 people
  32. 32. give myself 30 compliments
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    2 people
  33. 33. become a game designer
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    43 people
  34. 34. design a game
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    196 people
  35. 35. create my own computer game
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    2,373 people
  36. 36. play lots and lots of computer games
    19 entries . 4 cheers
    1 person
  37. 37. dive with a whale shark
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    47 people
  38. 38. find my musical instrument
    1 entry . 7 cheers
    2 people
  39. 39. lose 5 kilos
    1 entry
    247 people
  40. 40. sample a French vanilla mocha.....several times if possible
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    1 person

How I did it
How to adjust my attitude
It took me
3 days
It made me
excited


How to soften my feet
It took me
2 weeks
It made me
feel beautiful


How to orient myself to Ubuntu's Unity interface
It took me
2 days
It made me
relieved


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Recent entries
stop comparing myself to others (read all 4 entries…)
I read up on this a bit

because I felt I wasn’t making any progress with this goal. The takeaway message is to compare yourself to yourself rather than to other people. I’m not good at remembering things like this. I always need reminders to jolt me back out of whatever pit I am beginning to get sucked into.

Now that the new varsity year is here, academic comparison has begun to creep back in. So I have printed out my marks from last year and stuck them on the wall. It feels good to see them all there together, a standalone unit, a whole, not nested in among everyone else’s where the temptation is just too much. When I look at that wall, I see only my own striving for excellence. What is equally important is what I do not see. I don’t see mass assessment and how I ranked on that. I hate it when they put up class lists with everyone’s marks. Your marks should be for you and you only.



Befriend my body.
I have been making a big effort

to be more pleasant towards Body. Mainly, I lack patience with her. I expect her to fulfill my every demand regardless of whether or not I’ve been meeting her needs, seeing to her injuries or otherwise taking care of her. I am slowly coming to accept, with only short relapses into frustration, that recovery will not be as fast as I’d like. Nor will I be able to lose the extra weight I’ve picked up for quite some time. And I’m not going to get her there any faster by bullying her.



adjust my attitude
Hmm, I wonder how many times this goal will come up during my lifetime?

This time it’s about my negative attitude towards going back to university. I’ve already sorted it out a bit by reducing my load. I realised that I was mainly feeling stressed and overworked.

I have one more week before varsity starts and I’m going to spend it working on this goal.



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