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Darla




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Darla's Life List

  2. 1. Learn PHP
    1 entry . 7 cheers     		1,491 people
  3. 2. Live with Passion and Integrity
    2 entries . 24 cheers     		104 people
  4. 3. Encourage 43things members to add entries to their goals
    4 entries . 11 cheers     		2 people
  5. 4. stop saying it and just do it
    1 entry . 22 cheers     		114 people
  6. 5. Never stop learning
    1 entry . 17 cheers     		3,971 people
  7. 6. Learn the balance between Niceness and Doormat
    1 entry . 25 cheers     		31 people
  8. 7. Learn Web Services
    2 entries . 2 cheers     		5 people
  9. 8. stop procrastinating
    2 entries . 6 cheers     		26,997 people
  10. 9. NEVER apologize for who I am!
    1 entry . 21 cheers     		208 people
  11. 10. Spend less time fooling around on the net and more time actually working
    1 entry . 3 cheers     		5,509 people
  12. 11. Stay Focused
    2 entries . 6 cheers     		201 people
  13. 12. learn to forgive
    1 entry . 14 cheers     		438 people
  14. 13. learn CSS coding so I can make extra-spiffy layouts that no one else has!
    1 entry . 3 cheers     		36 people
  15. 14. deal with my addictions
    2 entries . 8 cheers     		6 people
  16. 15. To live instead of exist
    2 entries . 11 cheers     		10,895 people
  17. 16. Be More Spontaneous
    1 entry . 5 cheers     		1,189 people
  18. 17. Make new friends
    3 entries . 5 cheers     		12,790 people
  19. 18. Find a balance between the things I want to do and the things I need to do
    2 entries . 12 cheers     		2,369 people
  20. 19. believe in myself more
    1 entry . 5 cheers     		118 people
  21. 20. work because I like to, not because I have to
    4 entries . 10 cheers     		3,440 people
  22. 21. have more self motivation
    1 entry . 5 cheers     		88 people
  23. 22. actually write and submit something for publication.
    1 entry . 7 cheers     		4 people
  24. 23. Make More Money
    6 entries . 4 cheers     		2,231 people
  25. 24. Quit Smoking
    5 entries . 19 cheers     		8,513 people
  26. 25. lose weight
    1 entry . 1 cheer     		36,401 people
  27. 26. get in shape
    2 entries . 3 cheers     		9,387 people
  28. 27. Be a better blogger
    1 entry . 2 cheers     		1,459 people
  29. 28. become a better networker
    1 entry . 2 cheers     		37 people
  30. 29. have more empathy,less self centeredness
    1 entry . 6 cheers     		8 people
  31. 30. Raise my Page Rank
    2 entries . 2 cheers     		28 people
  32. 31. commit acts of random kindness
    3 entries . 10 cheers     		147 people
  33. 32. Improve Search Engine Rankings
    1 entry . 1 cheer     		1 person
  34. 33. Learn Time Management
    2 entries . 1 cheer     		67 people
  35. 34. Prioritize, Focus & Follow-Through
    1 entry . 5 cheers     		84 people
  36. 35. change the world
    6 team members . 3 entries . 7 cheers     		3,316 people
  37. 36. Syndicate ALL my Sites
    1 entry . 2 cheers     		1 person
  38. 37. master CSS
    1 entry . 2 cheers     		770 people
  39. 38. stick to my diet
    		74 people
  40. 39. make more friends
    		5,083 people
  41. 40. Share something funny or beautiful
    2 entries . 4 cheers     		1 person
  42. 41. get better at keeping in touch with people who are important to me
    1 entry . 4 cheers     		696 people
  43. 42. simplify, simplify, simplify
    1 entry . 2 cheers     		27 people
Recent entries
Make new friends (read all 3 entries…)
Making More Friends 2 years ago

This is a great starting point for me.

I had isolated myself from most of the world except for a handful of what I considered family. They weren’t blood relations but they were my family regardless.

Then we had a falling out Friday. And I was devastated because I felt like I’d lost my ENTIRE support system.

I made a dozen phone calls to other people … and whined and cried about losing my support system. It wasn’t until I finished with all those phone calls that I realized that I HAD a support system. They were the ones who I called and depended on during the stress. They helped me come to the conclusion that my other relationship was dysfunctional. I already knew that ….. but now my covers were pulled and that means doing something about it. So I did, and now I’m okay and grateful for the friends who ARE there for me.

We also came to the conclusion that I needed to “spread myself” around and get to know new people. So that’s what my goal is for the next year. Meet new people, get out of my comfort zone and take some risks.

Jul 11, 2007, 06:59AM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


Invite some people from 43things to Orkut (read all 3 entries…)
Done! 4 years ago

I’ve been answering alot of requests to join and would like to keep inviting more people … especially since theres the 43things group at Orkut now ….

But I’m marking this done to make room …

Jul 15, 2005, 01:11AM PDT | 1 cheer | 1 comment


Invite some people from 43things to Orkut (read all 3 entries…)
There's a 43things community at Orkut now 4 years ago

But it’s kind’a lonely in there … so maybe some of you will come join us?

Jul 15, 2005, 01:09AM PDT | 3 cheers | 2 comments


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I want to:

The world wants to...

design clothes Oryx wants to read a book a week Be a better friend read at least one book a week be financially free Become a model sing in a nightclub Learn to play the piano get laser eye surgery become a father List ways I can be more green. open a restaurant read all of Jane Austen's novels Learn to read Binary Get better at tennis somethingbetter wants to Write more exercise Be more sociable Deal better with ADHD finish my degree stop biting my fingernails create my own advice column Get a tattoo Travle the world J B wants to identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money) Learn how to do capoeira stop stressing skinny dip
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