I'm doing 43 things
Sanctuary, Paddles, and Hellfire. Hellfire in NY was the most interesting (and the dirtiest). Paddles was ok. Sanctuary was the bomb—I came on a night when two gay guys were playing hot and hard.
Despistada's Life List
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1. solve a crime
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2. get rid of my landline
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3. look good in a bikini
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4. whiten my teeth
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5. feel beautiful
4 cheers2,217 people -
6. Get organized
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7. make my labia smaller
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8. Stop comparing myself to other people
726 people -
9. deal with conflict in a positive, assertive manner
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10. have abdominoplasty (tummy tuck)
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11. smile more, because my default facial expression is a scowl
1 cheer17 people -
12. buy a new car
1 entry . 1 cheer1,628 people -
13. stop beating myself up for small failures
1 entry89 people -
14. find my father
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15. finish my degree
1 cheer2,627 people -
16. Spend less time fooling around on the net and more time actually working
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17. stop using AOL
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18. enjoy myself in Santo Domingo, RD
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19. Learn to say no
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20. forgive myself and others
1 entry . 1 cheer54 people -
21. know what happens after death
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22. learn how to cook naija (Nigerian) food
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23. wake up when my alarm clock goes off
1 cheer7,551 people -
24. be more assertive
1 cheer711 people -
25. learn to fight
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26. nip it in the bud
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27. learn to make polite, empty chit chat
64 people -
28. get married again
1 cheer127 people -
29. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
1 entry . 1 cheer7,317 people -
30. understand IIS
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31. write a book
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32. stop ruminating
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33. visit Cuba
338 people -
34. flout society
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35. Buy a House
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36. learn how to drive stick-shift
4,526 people -
37. eat healthier
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38. be hypnotized
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39. figure out how to style my hair
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40. stop getting robbed
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41. Live less inside my own head
1 cheer357 people -
42. be less inhibited
1 cheer49 people -
43. improve my memory
1,341 people
Recent entries
Insurance will definitely not cover it. I don’t think I will be having any more kids. I’m willing to go out of the country to save money, and I do speak Spanish so Mexico or the Dominican Republic might be options.
Could my credit possibly suffer by not having the landline # that I’ve had for years any more? I’m having some second thoughts.
I canceled my DSL service. It was supposed to have been my first step towards independence from the phone line. But who’s [slightly] sorry now? I did well for maybe 10 days. Now I’m on a 37.3 dialup connection typing this.
And…I lost my ATM card yesterday like a dumb a—. Some lady’s kid found it and the lady located me by looking me up in the phone book. When she returned my card to me, I thought about 2 things: 1-Wish I’d have had more cash on hand to give to her for her daughter. 2-I guess I’d have been out of gas if I had disconnected my landline. But it depends on when I would have done it. And, she wound up coming by instead of talking to me cuz the phone was busy (dialup). Maybe she’d have done the same even if the # listed was disconnected? Who knows? But I really wanna know if it could affect my creditworthiness…
