We were squeezed, they asked us about everything. We had to wait, lot of months. We were a bit afraid, we didn’t know what to expect. Then she came. We hoped for a younger child, but we never regretted our “yes”. A wonderful six 1/2 years old girl. She spoke like a 4 years old, but she had an incredible smile, an astonishing energy, an unquenchable desire to love and be loved.
Her knowledge is growing up very fast. In just a few months she has learnt to speak perfectly, to read and write and loves playing with numbers. She doesn’t love mush stay seated at school, but she’s improving even there. Now she’s no more going to sit on her teacher’s lap.
The couple of adoptive parents needs to learn a lot about themselves. Interact a lot with social services and never be scared to say “no” to the child, never get tired to hug and kiss him/her or let him think silently if he/she needs it.
Sometomes it’s easier, sometimes more difficult.
To us it was absolutely worth doing :-)
