Meh. I’m in one. It’s tricky, it sucks, but it’s better than a monogamous relationship or no relationship at all.
Try reading The Ethical Slut.
| 1. |
have friends that motivate me to be better
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1 person |
| 2. |
explore catacombs
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2 people |
| 3. |
Take more pictures
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14,309 people |
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find a unique, cute little travel mascot to take with me on all trips and photograph "him" next to touristy sites wherever i go...(kind of like the traveling gnome).
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137 people |
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get CPR certified
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102 people |
| 6. |
invent a crazy themed pub crawl
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1 person |
| 7. |
practice the clarinet more often
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14 people |
| 8. |
coach debate
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3 people |
| 9. |
identify 100 things that make me happy.
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2,255 people |
| 10. |
have a clean, coordinated bedroom
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1 person |
| 11. |
become a regular at a coffeeshop
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1 person |
| 12. |
learn how to take pictures hot enough to submit to Instigator
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1 person |
| 13. |
own a $200 pair of jeans
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1 person |
| 14. |
become a beer snob
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1 person |
| 15. |
have a little brother
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4 people |
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graduate summa cum laude
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81 people |
| 17. |
submit
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10 people |
| 18. |
live without tv
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6 people |
| 19. |
do a kegstand
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1 person |
| 20. |
get out of debt
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11,035 people |
| 21. |
live in a house with hidden rooms and secret passageways
1 cheer |
435 people |
| 22. |
visit more small breweries
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1 person |
| 23. |
go on a road trip with no predetermined destination
1 cheer |
18,543 people |
| 24. |
Learn Spanish
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15,510 people |
| 25. |
Get lasik
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224 people |
| 26. |
Go to Burning Man
1 cheer |
1,437 people |
| 27. |
find an apartment with a roof-top deck
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17 people |
| 28. |
Be comfortable with my body
1 cheer |
291 people |
| 29. |
Finish college
2 cheers |
3,181 people |
| 30. |
Publish my second book
1 cheer |
4 people |
| 31. |
see the northern lights
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16,919 people |
| 32. |
become a wine snob
1 cheer |
9 people |
| 33. |
meet more weirdos
1 cheer |
7 people |
| 34. |
Go running everyday
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64 people |
| 35. |
be closer with my siblings
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2 people |
| 36. |
whiten my teeth
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2,066 people |
| 37. |
learn how to iron
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9 people |
| 38. |
Make a scrapbook
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828 people |
| 39. |
be comfortable dancing in public
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5 people |
| 40. |
live in London for a while
1 cheer |
61 people |
| 41. |
Learn Yoga
1 cheer |
2,317 people |
Meh. I’m in one. It’s tricky, it sucks, but it’s better than a monogamous relationship or no relationship at all.
Try reading The Ethical Slut.
I’ve always liked the sketchy, smokey bars, so Cellblock was an easy choice. I kept up with their calendar, participated in events, brought other friends, and made an effort to get to know all the other regulars. I’ve made a ton of friends that I hang out with outside the bar.
If nothing else, the money I save on my bar tab is well worth it. :)
I received an orchid as a gift three years ago. They’re like bonsai trees for people with no attention span. It required some regular upkeep, but the results were incredible. I normally don’t give a damn about flowers, but the challenge of raising something so fragile was worth the effort.