Today! Enough is enough! I want to have children. I don’t want to be overweight when I’m pregnant. It’s not a matter of being pretty, it’s health. It’s not clinging to food because of stress. It’s having a healthy attitude towards life. I want to be fit! I’m doing this, and I’m starting right now!
Extragalactic's Life List
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1. Lose 13 kilos
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2. read the hobbit in swedish
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3. learn irish
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4. get fit
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5. learn Italian
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6. learn Icelandic
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7. stop interrupting people
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8. understand the "Membrane Paradigm" of Black Holes
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9. read my stack of papers on pulsars
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10. make a list of the ups of each day for one year
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11. learn about shocks
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12. have a baby before i'm 30
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13. ride my bike more
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14. finish the scarf I'm knitting for my mom
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15. list 43 fictional men I wouldn't kick outta bed
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16. study all the topics on my 'to learn' list
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17. Cook one recipe from every cookbook I own
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18. acquire sufficient plasma physics knowledge to consider myself an expert
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19. be a vegetarian for a week
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20. go vegan for a week
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21. learn QED
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22. have an orgasm again
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23. Read the 'Course of Theoretical Physics' Series by Landau, Lifshitz
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24. read the entire "Wheel of Time" saga in swedish
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25. read more engish litterature
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26. finish writing my book
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27. read the Iliad and the Odyssey in Greek
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28. stop criticizing others
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29. stop complaining
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30. print some posters out of photos
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31. concentrate
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32. read the whole 'Gravitation' by Misner, Thorne, Wheeler
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33. Have a healthy BMI
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34. eat healthier
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35. know all there is to know about Nonlinear Thomson Scattering
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36. understand the Erber '66 paper and references therein where needed
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37. knit hand-warmers
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38. read my stack of papers on radiation mechanisms
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39. improve my programming skills
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40. improve my mathematics
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41. knit a sweater for my boyfriend
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How I did it: I started doing things that make me happy. I exercise more, even if it's only going on a long walk. I don't compare myself to others - I am the unique combination of the genes and environmental circumstances that created me. I focus on people I love, and on my job, that I love. I don't let negative thoughts distract me, but I stop them as soon as they came to my mind. I actually listen when people tell me how important I am to them, and I… Read how I did it…
Being with people is good, because you can see yourself reflected in them. Being at home alone is also good, but one should be open to external stimuli. I am nurturing some young friendships, and it feels good! I don’t want to be so isolated anymore.
I invited friends for a barbecue. We had a nice time. And the most important thing: we might not be very close, but they all appeared, they all told me how much they enjoyed it. I see that I am esteemed by this group of people, and it feels very very good.
Well, that’s important. I only realize it now, when I started exercising a bit, taking care of my hair and generally trying to not look – and feel – so shabby. It’s not something you do for others, you do it for yourself. I still dont wear make-up, I still wear my old jeans and a t-shirt, but still, I feel so much better!
