Yet I feel that since I first articulated it here, it has become more and more natural. Maybe this is part of aging. Maybe seeing that relentless incrementalism really DOES get results. I can always get on my own case - but also, I can see when I do that and shift to a more self-loving and gentle approach. Less energy wasted in self-excoriation means more to use to actually do something, incremental or otherwise. Joy!
FairlyFearless's Life List
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1. Live what I know
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2. take one action daily, however small, to renew and work actively from my connection to my resourceful, feisty, creative, hard-working self
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3. Stick with and achieve my WEEKLY fitness goals, which I KNOW make me happier and healthier
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4. Do Yoga at least 3x a Week
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6. Spend less time fooling around on the net (esp. playing stupid games) & more time working, playing, going on walks, visiting friends, et al
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7. stay current with, and answer old my emails (and conventional mail), both from old friends and strangers who admire my work
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8. get out of debt and into financial well-being, one choice at a time --- creating a life where my money works for me, not the other way around
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9. lead more workshops and do more guest lectures/ talks/presentations
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12. make an up-to-date will that reflects my current situation: who I am and what I possess now
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14. Get out of "time debt"
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16. call Equifax, Experian, and the other credit-reporting companies and clear up the mistakes on my credit report
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17. save up 6 months worth of living expenses, starting with 1 month by the end of this year (2006)
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18. see Venice before it sinks (but AFTER I have $ saved for the trip and am out of debt!)
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19. Max out donations to my Roth IRA
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21. SLOWLY develop a working routine for tidying my work place, making it more of an orderly, humming sanctuary. Set a time to put this routine in place, then do it.
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22. Find/develop ways to make my huge mortgage payments less onerous and scary, instead, meet these obligations responsibly, with ease, calm, surety... and a plan
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How I did it: Birthdays are infinite --- every human being has one! There are many good human beings whose births deserve celebrating, but it's not up to me, not the best and highest use of my time, to archive this. Impossible anyway! Read how I did it…
How I did it: After years of getting whacked and overwhelmed with pre-departure details, I finally, had some deep level, profoundly, truly, HAD ENOUGH. I had a recent trip that was a working vacation --- more vacation than work. I was greatly looking forward to it and I thought: "this time, really no-kidding, I'm doing this differently. I am going to leave in a relaxed way." And I began the detailed minutiae of packing two weeks in advance. (This also … Read how I did it…
No credit card use for a year! (Only AMEX, which you pay off monthly). Paying off old credit cards with Consumer Credit Counseling Service, a terrific and highly recommended program. Took a financial literacy course, too. And saving.
A long way to go, but I am SO much more on the road than ever before in my life. Still areas where I know I’m shutting my eyes, but more light and clear-seeing in this formerly wholly dark corner thnan ever before. Yay! Amazing!
Shoulder surgery (rotator cuff repair, December 08) means no Downward Dogs for awhile. But I’m PT’ing and I WILL return!
