I think instead of getting really mad, sad, etc. I have learned to channel my energy to make a positive change in the world or thinking about it. I don’t suppress my energy, and I try to let myself feel it so that it does not stay in my body, but I also use that excess energy for good so that all the bad in the world doesn’t bog me down.
FascistFlower's Life List
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1. Look good in a bikini (get fit)
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2. Speak at audible volumes
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3. Do the splits
2,287 people -
4. Learn to gain command of a room
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5. Improve my ability to make people smile
1 person -
6. Improve my language and communication skills
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7. Learn the art of war
1 person -
8. Learn the art of peacemaking
2 entries1 person -
9. Take responsibility for my actions
13 people -
10. being able to hold a conversation with random people esp. at parties
1 person -
11. Learn: Farsi
334 people -
12. gain french proficiency
1 person -
13. Gain Arabic proficiency
1 person -
14. become fluent in chinese
63 people -
15. learn how to surf
953 people -
16. gain ab definition
1 person -
17. comfortably dance all the ballroom dances
1 person -
18. learn the difference between the ballroom dances
1 person -
19. scuba dive
2,519 people -
20. go white water rafting
1,422 people -
21. learn to pole dance
377 people -
22. start a business/organization
1 person
I’ve learned that I need to make room for the positive in my life. For a long time, I had many negatives in my life that occupied most of my time. However, when I made more time for positive things and people in my life while limiting my negative experiences, and I just made time for people in general, more people tend to gravitate toward me. When more positive people gravitate toward me, then the negative people or the mean people tend to rethink their position about me. It’s not so much about catering to the people who bear a negative influence in your life as to really enjoying yourself and letting your light shine so that people will be instinctively drawn to you.
I made a breakthrough in my research and now the future of peacemaking will be changed significantly just as my p values on my regressions are.
