we must learn from our past, but should not dwell into it.
similarly, we should dream for the future but should not start building castles in the air by elaborate plannings.
try to make the best of today – the moment – that we have in our hands – which is actually ours.
i have done this. after going through various ( a series of bad incidents in life ) i practised to live in the moment and mastered the art of zen.
it helped me forgive all those people who hurt me in the past. i still have a good relationship with all those people. it helped me clear all scars on my mind, body and soul.
i got some super strength to think positive and feel optimistic all the time – in each situation and go ahead and live life with full zest – irespective whether its the upward phase or the downward. i learnt to enjoy both with aplomb.
so keep it up.
live in the moment. its worth everything
alka pande's Life List
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1. Learn to paint
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2. improve my english pronunciation
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3. declare 26/06 - 02/07 Flower Avatar Week
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4. post randomly !!
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5. travel the world
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6. read lots and lots of books
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7. thank everyday at least one person
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8. Piscarius Poetry
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9. post random questions daily and see if anyone plays with me and answers them :)
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10. organize my finances
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11. make passionate love on the beach on a moonlit night
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12. go around the world
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13. build abs in next three months
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14. more creative & constructive time management
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15. make at least one person happy each day
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16. be more patient
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17. write a book
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18. write substantial stuff and as much as possible...
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loving selflessly is the best thing we can do to ourselves. i have done this and continuously doing this. dont demand love in return. keep pouring it out – the more u give the cup of love will get filled again with more vengeance till its brim.
there are advantages of it also. when u dont expect anything – there are no hurts. besides, u remain a happy, relaxed, soft, sensitive person full of love.
so try it, and keep it up.
it gives instant happiness. just the name is enough. say flower – and vibrant colors, soft petals, intoxicating fragrance, positivity, love, beauty emerges in front of you.
in fact every day, every week, every year, every millennium should be dedicated as flower avatar day, week, year or millennium.
u have made my day simply by saying it with flowers.
thank u
