Flash




I'm doing 31 things
 

Flash's Life List

  1. 1. Live in gratitude & be happy even if the rest of the things on this list never happen
    147 entries . 312 cheers
    70 people
  2. 2. Meditate daily
    25 team members . 32 entries . 208 cheers
    3,984 people
  3. 3. be a better lover
    6 entries . 15 cheers
    177 people
  4. 4. have a healthy pregnancy
    14 entries . 19 cheers
    33 people
  5. 5. have a healthy baby
    15 cheers
    187 people
  6. 6. Educate, enlighten, inspire and empower others (and myself) about sexuality and gender
    20 entries . 142 cheers
    1 person
  7. 7. Practice healthy consensual nonmonogamy
    5 entries . 34 cheers
    10 people
  8. 8. have a simple yet memorable wedding
    2 team members . 2 entries . 18 cheers
    5 people
  9. 9. Build a strong and healthy marriage
    2 team members . 23 cheers
    2 people
  10. 10. Create a nurturing love nest with my partner
    2 team members . 27 entries . 130 cheers
    4 people
  11. 11. Approach financial planning as a team with my partner
    2 team members . 32 entries . 28 cheers
    3 people
  12. 12. Pay off my credit card debt
    14 entries . 96 cheers
    629 people
  13. 13. Make a $500 donation to charity
    6 entries . 38 cheers
    2 people
  14. 14. Fund 43 microloans through Kiva.org
    9 entries . 21 cheers
    72 people
  15. 15. Find a spiritual home
    2 entries . 35 cheers
    6 people
  16. 16. Give 43 compliments to men
    2 team members . 23 entries . 132 cheers
    5 people
  17. 17. give myself monthly breast exams
    3 team members . 16 cheers
    6 people
  18. 18. Be mind-numbingly hot at 40
    3 entries . 39 cheers
    3 people
  19. 19. Take dance lessons with my partner
    2 team members . 1 entry . 23 cheers
    6 people
  20. 20. Live outside the US for at least a year
    19 cheers
    7 people
  21. 21. Make my cat happy
    8 entries . 13 cheers
    1 person
  22. 22. Make a workout mix for CrookedLetter
    4 entries . 3 cheers
    1 person
  23. 23. Find a better breakfast routine
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    1 person
  24. 24. Find a better sleep & waking up routine
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    1 person
  25. 25. Reawaken my dream life
    3 entries . 7 cheers
    9 people
  26. 26. Open my heart, wider and more often
    1 entry . 5 cheers
    1 person
  27. 27. Organize and lead a camping trip in spring 2010
    6 cheers
    1 person
  28. 28. Build an art shanty
    2 entries . 7 cheers
    1 person
  29. 29. update my will
    2 entries . 3 cheers
    25 people
  30. 30. Come up with a backup plan in case I get laid off
    3 entries . 2 cheers
    1 person
  31. 31. Meditate every day for 43 days
    1 entry . 8 cheers
    2 people

How I did it
How to get pregnant
It took me
4 months
It made me
thrilled & terrified


How to make a duct tape dress form
It took me
1 day
It made me
a better seamstress


How to finish my bachelors degree
It took me
10 years
It made me


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Recent entries
Meditate every day for 43 days
I guess laying down to meditate and falling asleep immediately doesn't count as meditating, does it? 1 day ago

That’s called going to bed early.

Anyway, I have been doing that a lot lately.



Wish Dreamer a Birthday Filled with Love and Creativity November 17th
Happy belated birthday, Dreamer 1 day ago

May this year bring you even bigger, better, more interesting dreams. Thank you for your consistently heartfelt and positive presence here on this site. You are one of the reasons I love this online community.

Hugs, Flash



have a healthy pregnancy (read all 14 entries…)
First trimester testing scheduled for December 3 2 days ago

I imagine I’ll breathe a huge sigh of relief once that’s over with!

Or maybe not. Maybe there’s always going to be something new to worry about, starting now and lasting the next 18+ years. I think I’ll choose some other option—that’s no way to live!



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