Hoping it was Uber Happy!!
Hoping it was Uber Happy!!
I received a wedding invitation from the son of one of my oldest and dearest friends. I’m his “Aunt Fran” and can’t wait to see him get married. I’m booking a hotel room to stay the day of, and day after, the wedding.
But I have a dilemma. The invitation is only addressed to me.
I’ve been dating a guy for 1 1/2 years. I already told my boyfriend not to book anything for us the weekend of the wedding, after I got the “hold the date” card. My boyfriend also knows the parents of the groom (we all grew up together). But I don’t think the groom knows I’m in a serious relationship.
a)contact the groom and ask if I may bring my boyfriend?
b)contact my friend (mother of the groom) and ask her if she’ll ask the groom?
c)ask my boyfriend to come for the weekend since I’ll have the hotel room, but let him occupy himself alone while I’m at the wedding?
d)do nothing and tell my boyfriend it’s not “Fran and guest”?
...and still together. Who’d have thunk it??
That cleaning service 2 years ago – holy cow – didn’t last. I wasn’t happy with their work. I figured I’d take care of it myself. Nope. Silly me.
But thankfully, in February my parents, who live 1 floor above me, got a housekeeper and she brings 2 extra people to do my place at the same time. How great is that? And even better is that between visits – once a month – I’m actually keeping my place clean. The clothes get put away quicker. The mail is sorted and dumped regularly. Knowing they’ll be coming to actually CLEAN is such a stress reliever!
So, I still rely on what I learned from FlyLady – but I’d rather pay someone to do it all. :-)
Here….and that other place.
It’s been more than 3 years since her last post on her wall. I will always keep her on my list and will always keep her in my thoughts.
Miss you, Brightthunder.
A year of…..Segways, Museums, Zoos, restaurants, concerts and Aruba! She has been FOUND…and as long as I remember to keep her active, I don’t think she’ll go into hiding again.
Finally, finally, finally….I bought Carbonite which does a DAILY backup of everything.
PS…I can’t take credit for deciding to do it…I got tired of my boyfriend asking me WHEN I’d do it. LOL
I have been I learning every day how to be a grown up. How to be a friend. How to be on a relationship. It’s been a year of ups and downs , physically, emotionally …but not spiritually. I am connecting with who I am finally supposed to be. And it’s good.
It’s been an interesting year.
The relationship is still going on…and no one is more surprised than me that he and I are still together. Go figure. Work is work – busy but frustrating, so no change there. 5 years already – wow.
Family life has had it’s struggles – my mom’s had 2 health scares and although it’s stable right now, who knows how long…
Adventures have been plentiful – Cape Cod, seqway riding in the Catskills, concerts, movies…
Looking at where I’ve been, wondering what’s next…quite a ride.
6 months ago…Next? Hang pictures. See you next year! LOL
List is printed…now, to get started!
Still can’t do this….unless I lift my foot up to reach my hand. LOL.
Well, there finally IS someone. Is he “that someone special”? I’m not so sure. Probably not…maybe…I have no idea. LOL. It has not been anything like I expected it to be – oh, those pesky expectations.
It’s actually someone I’ve known since I was 8 years old. We were in 2nd and 3rd grade together, grew up with the same friends and graduated high school together. Then lost touch for 30+ years – until FaceBook (gotta give FB credit). And FB friends for more than a year before going out face-to-face the day after New Years.
It’s been up…then down…and up again. I am learning about acceptance, values, old connections, romance, confusion, serenity, friendship, pain, fun, honesty, happiness…life. And about me.
Like I said way back in my first post “If you build it, he will come”. I guess construction is almost done :-)
Driving around doing errands this morning…a beautiful sunny Saturday morning…song after song that came on the radio was perfect….Wilson Picket-Land of 1000 Dances….The Association-Windy…Neil Diamond-Holly Holy. It doesn’t get much better than that!
patiently waiting for the chair to fill this space.
March was a good financial month – annual bonus and tax refunds hit before the end of the month. Next step? Do something with it. I met with my financial guy yesterday and already gave him my 2012 IRA money (he was shocked – I usually give it to him in December). And I put some money aside to do some condo updates – a new fridge? redo closets? I’ll figure it out after I get the den finished. But so far, 2012 is looking OK.
In the last 3 1/2 months, Little Frannie has been active. Actively having fun.
Comedy shows, movies, concerts, plays. Experiencing new music, new foods, new places, new everything.
She found someone to play with. Someone she knew back when she forgot how to have fun.
He’s reminding her.
Recently I found a 2nd cousin (or maybe a 3rd?) on FB that I haven’t seen since I was 11 years old, who now lives in Missouri. We’re learning about each other and our families thru posts and pictures.
An ex-boss, already a friend, and I have been able to connect on a different level as she’s dealing with a family crisis, and she’s giving me advice on my dating-life (that’s what we’re calling it this week).
A physical therapist who also helped my parents who has become a friend. A new texting buddy.
Cell phone calls, texting, FaceBooking (is that really a word?) have helped me stay in touch with so many people that might have been “out of sight, out of mind”.
This one has been easy. One can never have enough friends!