Friendlybeard

Well, time is the great healer that’s for sure.

Found out she wasn’t doing as great as she made out – she was putting on a front. So, you never can tell. I guess; don’t worry if they seem like they’re doing amazing after the break-up, just look after yourself, and remember you never can really tell what’s going on in their mind. Even if they are doing amazingly after a break-up, it can’t have been right, as they’re obviously not human and don’t feel anything for you! ;)

Keep busy, but be kind to yourself and give yourself time.

In hindsight, I found that actually she wasn’t right for me at all, so hey!!

Anyhoo, best of luck for everyone going through this. IT DOES GET BETTER. YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT! I will now tell my past self this :)

Love,

Rob
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Well, feeling amazing at ye moment. Don’t feel like i’m too judgemental. I think we are all naturally judgemental – it’s a survival thing, which can double up as an ego protection thing. It’s based in fear basically.

With my self-esteem on a high, I have less fear of my ego being dented, hence less fearful, thus no need to be judgemental.

With this in mind, I can hopefully see when it’s happening and tell myself – that person, is the way they are because of the life they’ve had – If I was in their position from day 0, I would be the same.

No gonna strike this off as done yet; I’ll give it some more time to see…

Hope everyones lovely!

Rob
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I feel great at the moment! Self-esteem on a high! I think it’s because my music is going well, and I’ve tried things at work that were outside my comfort zone.

So, maybe this will help:

1. Do something important to you – make it happen.

2. Try something outside your comfort zone once a week or so.

Hope you’re all lovely!

Rob
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