FruitsAndMusic

is preparing to make 2010 the best year yet



I'm doing 33 things
 

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  1. 1. Be A Better Dancer
    2010 resolution . 7 cheers
    149 people
  2. 2. Be An 'A' Student
    2010 resolution . 1 cheer
    18 people
  3. 3. Be celibate forever
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    2 people
  4. 4. Be Myself
    1 entry . 11 cheers
    1,735 people
  5. 5. Be Nicer
    2010 resolution . 2 cheers
    758 people
  6. 6. Begin A New Life
    2010 resolution . 2 entries . 3 cheers
    4 people
  7. 7. Boost Metabolism
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    2 people
  8. 8. Build Muscle
    2 entries . 4 cheers
    348 people
  9. 9. Buy A Mac
    10 cheers
    400 people
  10. 10. Drive Slower
    2010 resolution . 3 entries . 2 cheers
    33 people
  11. 11. Finish Something I Start
    1 entry . 8 cheers
    54 people
  12. 12. Follow an exercise schedule
    3 cheers
    1 person
  13. 13. Forgive Myself
    1 entry . 9 cheers
    671 people
  14. 14. Get on a schedule
    2010 resolution . 2 cheers
    37 people
  15. 15. Go on a juice fast
    1 cheer
    125 people
  16. 16. Go Raw
    3 entries . 1 cheer
    191 people
  17. 17. Go To Bed And Wake Up Earlier
    2010 resolution . 1 entry . 3 cheers
    13 people
  18. 18. Go To School
    2010 resolution . 6 entries . 5 cheers
    246 people
  19. 19. Have A Plan
    1 cheer
    17 people
  20. 20. Keep A Daily Journal
    1 entry . 5 cheers
    202 people
  21. 21. Learn To Play The Guitar
    5 cheers
    12,656 people
  22. 22. Live In The Present
    330 people
  23. 23. Lose 40 lbs
    2010 resolution . 1 cheer
    512 people
  24. 24. Make 2010 my best year yet
    2010 resolution . 1 cheer
    12 people
  25. 25. Middle Splits
    2010 resolution . 1 entry . 2 cheers
    1 person
  26. 26. Practice Pilates
    2010 resolution . 3 entries . 6 cheers
    97 people
  27. 27. Prove them wrong
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    152 people
  28. 28. Read Every Book I Own
    2 entries . 9 cheers
    2,116 people
  29. 29. Reflect here daily
    1 person
  30. 30. Stretch For 1 000 Hours
    49 entries . 4 cheers
    1 person
  31. 31. Take 100 Ballet Classes
    10 entries . 4 cheers
    1 person
  32. 32. Take Care of My Dad
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    4 people
  33. 33. Take A Photo A Day For A Year
    2010 resolution . 1 entry
    27 people

How I did it
How to do a 24 hour fast
It took me
1 week
It made me
:)


How to go to the movies alone
It took me
1 day
It made me
:D


How to dance again
It took me
3 years
It made me
Wonderful


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Recent entries
read every book I own (read all 2 entries…)
Read every book I own II 2 days ago

I would like to complete these books before 2010:

  • Einstein: The Life and Times by Ronald W. Clark
  • Nikola Tesla: Biography of a Genius by Marc J. Seifer
  • No one here gets out alive by Jerry Hopkins and Danny Sugerman
  • Secret Book :S


Stretch For 1 000 Hours (read all 49 entries…)
21/11/09 2 days ago

I have been suffering from symptoms of fibromyalgia. I see the doctor in a week. I have been resting from activity. My skin feels as though it is being rubbed by sand paper all the time and it hurts the most when I put on pants. I now walk with a limp because the pain is so severe. I hope I can get to the bottom of this very soon.



be celibate forever
Stay celibate forever 2 days ago

When most people hear about being celibate for their lifetime they think it mad. I don’t know what makes it so inconceivable for them. I hear a lot of comments saying “If you meet the right person you won’t feel that way” or “It is humanly impossible” or “celibates are closeted homosexuals so that makes them homosexuals”.

I had a very sexually active adolescence. One I am not proud of but it did bring some good and that is knowing that this is something I rather be away from.

I won’t lie I am attracted to both sexes but for me sex is something I pleasure not from. And when I have had sexual experiences with both and the result is the same. I feel as though something has been taken away from me. As though with each experience a little bit of my innocence has vanished. It is a scary feeling for me.

I feel there are too many complications affiliated with the experience. I don’t want to be touched in that way. I prefer to keep this part of myself foreign to others. I prefer to experience other beautiful things in life that make up for that part of my life. Just as others view sex as an expression of love, I view my celibacy as an expression of love. For I can dedicate my life whole heartedly to changing the world. That is what I want. There is no doubt.

Some may think I am off the wall for feeling this way. I don’t feel like I am missing a thing. You know that glorious feeling you get after good sex? Well I have that feeling all the time in its absence.

This is a decision I have made with not association with religious dogma or parental or any social advising. This decision came from my heart.

Here is to a life of celibacy.



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