HandsomeDan




I'm doing 8 things
 

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  1. 1. get published
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  2. 2. anime
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  3. 3. I want to get back into shape
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  4. 4. live one day at a time
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  5. 5. publish
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  6. 6. Publish my own book
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    82 people
  7. 7. identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money)
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  8. 8. Take more pictures
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How I did it
How to believe in myself
It took me
10 years
It made me
Confident


How to write a book
It took me
3 years
It made me
Accomplished


How to be happy on my own..not having to rely on someone else for happiness
It took me
2 years
It made me
Accomplished


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Recent entries
go to a public BDSM club and play.
A wonderful experience for me 19 months ago

Was there for a kink party. In my particular first experience (Been to a few since then), I dove right in.

I do NOT recommend such an action for others.

My experience was very fun. I enjoyed it a lot, came home, took pictures of all the marks, slept like a happy baby that night, LOVED it. OMG memories. I found myself buck naked, strapped to a piece of furniture, on the front stage of a big playspace (Think a skating rink with about fifteen ‘stations’ and more than fifty people). Most of those people were complete strangers, not people I knew.

That made it hotter. Had my ass beaten thoroughly, was flogged to a point of bleeding, and enjoyed the sensation of a violet wand. The stimulation and the experience were absolutely incredible.

My experience does not reflect everyone’s, and you really MUST know what you’re doing, and who you’re doing it with. Some states even have laws barring this behavior. That said, it can be very very fun. My next adventure is to find some more people with whom to play, I’m a young switch, so it would seem easy, but not always. LeSigh All I need is another good beating to hold me over, lol.



find someone who likes BDSM and cuddling.
Had her, let her go, regretted it since... 19 months ago

I regret losing that one. They are so rare. Won’t make that mistake again. Not ever.



meet others in BDSM
Check local groups 19 months ago

That’s a great place to start. Also try collarme.com, the web’s largest BDSM dating-oriented community.



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