I'm doing 41 things
I think I am so much more optimistic now but I’m afraid to mark it off my list just yet.
InTheForest's Life List
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1. stop being afraid
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2. stop depending on others for my happiness
8 entries . 22 cheers187 people -
3. Learn how to make myself happy.
9 entries . 9 cheers84 people -
4. learn to be happy alone
4 entries . 8 cheers29 people -
5. stop being a people pleaser
8 entries . 12 cheers59 people -
6. live my life on my own terms, not trying to live up to the expectations of others
2 entries . 10 cheers257 people -
7. Be myself
16 entries . 8 cheers1,856 people -
8. be more assertive
11 entries . 7 cheers721 people -
9. stop letting people treat me like crap
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10. Improve my self-esteem
5 entries . 2 cheers978 people -
11. trust myself
8 entries . 2 cheers235 people -
12. forgive myself
3 entries . 1 cheer751 people -
13. Learn To Forgive
3 entries . 3 cheers448 people -
14. express my feelings & thoughts better
15 entries . 2 cheers53 people -
15. be more outgoing
10 entries . 7 cheers2,765 people -
16. make better friends
10 entries . 3 cheers181 people -
17. stop being co-dependent
11 entries . 6 cheers93 people -
18. become more independent
6 entries . 5 cheers333 people -
19. stop worrying so much
5 entries . 3 cheers716 people -
20. Be more optimistic
3 entries . 5 cheers724 people -
21. To live instead of exist
5 entries . 5 cheers11,581 people -
22. live now rather than always looking forward
5 entries . 2 cheers157 people -
23. Stop being judgmental
2 entries24 people -
24. Achieve enlightenment
1 entry . 1 cheer179 people -
25. Sleep less, live more
4 entries . 3 cheers17 people -
26. stop hitting snooze
3 entries . 2 cheers46 people -
27. tell someone I love them
3 entries . 3 cheers255 people -
28. go on a trip by myself
1 entry . 1 cheer22 people -
29. publish a book
3 cheers2,570 people -
30. Do the splits
2 entries . 1 cheer2,288 people -
31. swim regularly
2 entries . 2 cheers282 people -
32. learn to sew better
1 entry . 3 cheers68 people -
33. Watch the entire Twin Peaks TV series
1 entry . 1 cheer1 person -
34. volunteer at the humane society
6 entries . 7 cheers51 people -
35. take a photography class
3 cheers1,633 people -
36. take a fencing class
1 entry18 people -
37. take a sword fighting class
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38. learn to fight with a sword
4 cheers190 people -
39. work on a politcal campaign
1 entry . 1 cheer2 people -
40. keep the house cleaner
8 entries15 people -
41. paint my house
1 entry213 people
Recent entries
I have taken this to heart in my marriage. I KNOW I have to express my feelings and not keep things bottled up. I have made a vow that I WILL NOT keep things to myself to avoid making my husband upset or uncomfortable. Sometimes it is so hard but every time I am successful it reinforces the fact that I need to keep it up. It always works out for the best when I am honest and express myself.
