I'm doing 41 things
House Cleaner
8 months ago
I have hired a house cleaner! Does this count? I’m still not happy with my part so I’m keeping this on the list
InTheForest's Life List
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1. stop being afraid
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2. stop depending on others for my happiness
7 entries . 19 cheers173 people -
3. Learn how to make myself happy.
8 entries . 8 cheers59 people -
4. learn to be happy alone
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5. stop being a people pleaser
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6. live my life on my own terms, not trying to live up to the expectations of others
2 entries . 9 cheers253 people -
7. Be myself
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8. be more assertive
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9. stop letting people treat me like crap
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10. Improve my self-esteem
5 entries . 2 cheers874 people -
11. trust myself
7 entries . 3 cheers197 people -
12. forgive myself
3 entries . 1 cheer672 people -
13. Learn To Forgive
3 entries . 2 cheers438 people -
14. express my feelings & thoughts better
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15. be more outgoing
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16. make better friends
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17. stop being co-dependent
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18. become more independent
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19. stop worrying so much
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20. Be more optimistic
2 entries . 5 cheers645 people -
21. To live instead of exist
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22. live now rather than always looking forward
5 entries . 1 cheer157 people -
23. Stop being judgmental
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24. Achieve enlightenment
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25. Sleep less, live more
4 entries . 3 cheers15 people -
26. stop hitting snooze
3 entries . 3 cheers47 people -
27. tell someone I love them
3 entries . 3 cheers234 people -
28. go on a trip by myself
1 entry . 2 cheers19 people -
29. publish a book
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30. Do the splits
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31. swim regularly
2 entries . 3 cheers266 people -
32. learn to sew better
1 entry . 3 cheers64 people -
33. Watch the entire Twin Peaks TV series
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34. volunteer at the humane society
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35. take a photography class
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36. take a fencing class
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37. take a sword fighting class
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38. learn to fight with a sword
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39. work on a politcal campaign
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40. keep the house cleaner
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41. paint my house
1 entry . 1 cheer220 people
Recent entries
We All Have Lessons
8 months ago
I read something the other day that REALLY helped me with this. It said we must allow people to make the mistakes they need to make in order to learn the lessons they are predestined to learn in their lives. I believe we all have lessons we are here to learn. So, it really helped me to think that when I see people doing stupid things that I feel the need to be judgmental about that I should instead look at it as the path they need to be on in their life to learn the lessons they are meant to learn. It really helps!
Out Alone
8 months ago
In December I went out and met some friends at a restaurant/ bar/ reunion alone. I really didn’t have any anxiety about it at all. In fact I wanted to go alone. My mom was shocked. She said you’re going alone?? You sure have made progress! That made me feel proud!
