IvoryTears

Do you ever hear about Vietnam’education? (Yes, thats where i am). Kids study 18 hours/day, dont have time to chill out and teachers dont teach what we want to learn. I want to know the world, i want to study more new interesting thing. But i guess its impossible back in Vietnam. So, im dreaming of going to America for the best education. And Guess what, after studying abroad, i’ll return here to work for my country. I always belong to Vietnam, my heart, my soul, my body.
One more reason for this goal :—> THE MAN I LOVE, HE LIVES THERE.
So, America, San Diego will be the target i’m aiming !

Living in Asia mean you dont live for yourself. There are so many people around you like your families, your friends, your neighbours and someone knows who you know. So before making a decision, you have to look around.
To have a man in your life, here are the steps you “must” follow : Sign the papers, wedding… thats everyone does in Asia (and Vietnam for my case). If you dont, your families will sit down under a stream of pressure, abuse and rumours (like: you are not well-educated, you are such a shame…)
The luckiest thing in the world is you find your true half. I agree with it. Now, i have my man. We want to be together forever. We dream of a happy family of our own, a baby, a house…
And everything seems to be easy, out of discussion if… we have a wedding.
But i dont believe in wedding nor marriage certificate. Neither does him! We’ve been through alot, thats why we both agree about this. I dont want to use the wedding, the marriage certificate to bind my man. If hes mine, he will be… forever. If not, i cant keep him beside me no matter what.
I can imagine how hurt my families, specially my mother feel because of our decision. Its just like i break her heart. How can she suffer all the rumours, the pressure, the shame? How can i live happy everafter in that situation?
But still…. I want to have my man forever without a wedding. Because hes a trustWorthy man. and because of …LOVE