Jared

When troubles are part of a happy life, they become lessons loved.



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Jared's Life List

  1. 1. Pass it along
    22 entries . 6 cheers
    1 person
  2. 2. Develop a Vision Statement & Goal Plan for my Life
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    77 people
  3. 3. Be Myself Again
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    93 people
  4. 4. Learn Spanish
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    18,160 people
  5. 5. 4YG
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    1 person
  6. 6. Unify Mind, body, and spirit
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    1 person
  7. 7. Compose more music
    1 entry . 8 cheers
    32 people
  8. 8. Learn to trust
    2 entries . 12 cheers
    422 people
  9. 9. Change the Energy
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    1 person
  10. 10. Give blood
    1 entry . 9 cheers
    3,021 people
  11. 11. Be a part of something larger than myself
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    1 person
  12. 12. Tell someone "Life is beautiful" in some way, every day
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    1 person
  13. 13. Find someone else who gets me
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    1 person
  14. 14. Meditate more often
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    244 people
  15. 15. Learn to paint
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    1,296 people
  16. 16. stick to a budget
    1 entry . 5 cheers
    1,413 people
  17. 17. Save $1000
    565 people
  18. 18. Save enough money to make a down payment on a house.
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    1 person
  19. 19. Do 43 things!
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    59 people
  20. 20. Plant a garden
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    2,099 people
  21. 21. Learn to concentrate
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    24 people
  22. 22. find my place in the world
    1 entry . 7 cheers
    139 people
  23. 23. tell a stranger he/she is beautiful
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    3 people
  24. 24. learn to love myself
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    1,573 people
  25. 25. Learn to speed read
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    526 people
  26. 26. find my dream career
    1 cheer
    29 people
  27. 27. become self disciplined
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    3 people
  28. 28. Join Starfleet
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    8 people
  29. 29. change the world
    2 entries . 3 cheers
    3,469 people
  30. 30. Complicate things less
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    1 person
  31. 31. Write a short story
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    1,171 people
  32. 32. Talk to at least one stranger each day
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    1 person
  33. 33. learn how to take care of my car
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    11 people
  34. 34. learn to read Japanese
    1 cheer
    46 people
  35. 35. dance with someone
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    4 people
  36. 36. read all the books I own
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    1,281 people
  37. 37. read Critique of Pure Reason
    3 people

How I did it
How to speak up when i have an answer/idea/opinion
It took me
11 years
It made me
Confident


How to build myself a website
It took me
10 days
It made me
Accomplished


How to chill out
It took me
14 months
It made me
Relaxed


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Recent entries
Build myself a website
I've done it for work

I’ve made the website for the classroom I work in. Why not have my own? I have plenty to say, learn, connect, and share. So I’ll make my own since it’s pretty easy nowadays (no coding needed).



Pass it along (read all 22 entries…)
Trust your body, Trust the world

I saw Avatar Special Edition last night and while watching the movie for the 5th time a certain aspect to the nature of why this has been such a hit dawned on me.

While Neytiri is training Jake to be one of the Omaticaya Jake’s narration covers two topics: Firstly, he needs to trust his body “to do the right thing” as he runs and jumps through the forest trees. Secondly, that the forest is full of energy that flows through everything and everyone and that the forest will take care of you.

These two concepts, when taken together, would be something like “Trust yourself, you are a part of the universe, trust the universe” and then one may come to realize one’s connection to the world around them. Yet it’s more than just a feeling of connection. A kind of intimacy with the world around you (as promoted by Zen practices) is brought to the fore.

We go through life “barely there.” Being disconnected from the world around us. Avatar invites us to stop, smell the roses, bask in the sun, and run. Feel the ground beneath you, the flow of air or stillness. It also invites you to trust your link to all that is around us, rather than to fear it. Since the norm is to fear the unknown and since we consider everything not directly controlled as unknown in purpose or essence we fear it on some level.

Instead trust yourself, you know more than you let on. You just know instinctively rather than from a book. Just so, trust the universe, it will provide if you hunt for what you need.



Pass it along (read all 22 entries…)
Choose Happiness

After years apart I recently stumbled upon my first love on Facebook. He’s running a small networking company from his Navy barracks. His goal is to inspire, and he succeeded with me. When I knew him, he was timid, unsure, and without direction. The Navy seems to have helped him, but moreover he has helped himself.

He made a video some time ago and it reminded me of things I’ve known and forgotten. Moreover I found his website and it blew my mind. Here he is, doing what he wants, feeling good.

Why isn’t that me? Well I’ve been pretty dang obsessed with feeling bad. This goes back to changing the energy goal. Choose not only in the moment to feel good or handle something well, but choose so beforehand. Wake up in the morning and dedicate yourself to feeling good, happy, well, fulfilled, and above all, true to yourself.

We all have trouble, but when these troubles are part of a good life, rather than a bad life, they’re lessons we learn to love.



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