...I’ve got a weakness for the bad boys…
it's something unpredictable...'s Life List
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1. Skydive
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2. go to Hawaii
21 cheers1,940 people -
3. Join the Peace Corps
3 entries . 28 cheers2,482 people -
4. dive with great white sharks
1 entry . 14 cheers26 people -
5. run a marathon
2 entries . 29 cheers12,814 people -
6. Take more pictures
11 cheers15,401 people -
7. Kiss in the rain
1 entry . 10 cheers15,129 people -
8. Walk Down Abbey Road
23 cheers51 people -
9. Go on a cross-country road trip
13 cheers159 people -
10. Get my Advanced SCUBA certification
11 cheers22 people -
11. be swept off my feet
9 cheers158 people -
12. learn how to drive stick-shift
8 cheers4,474 people -
13. live in NYC
13 cheers755 people -
14. go to fiji
6 cheers191 people -
15. go to a poetry slam
19 cheers45 people -
16. make my own clothes
14 cheers2,322 people -
17. Learn to surf
7 cheers8,124 people -
18. scuba dive in the caribbean
5 entries . 5 cheers14 people -
19. Learn to change a tire
17 cheers90 people -
20. go to spain
6 cheers771 people -
21. Have a piece of writing published
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22. Stand on the corner of Haight & Ashbury
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23. Visit a rainforest
19 cheers159 people -
24. Challenge myself
1 entry . 11 cheers165 people -
25. backpack through Europe
9 cheers5,158 people -
26. fall in love
1 entry . 7 cheers27,224 people -
27. go to Proxy Falls
1 cheer2 people -
28. shadow on a commercial fishing boat for a day
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29. star gaze on the beach
11 cheers2 people -
30. reconnect with old friends
2 entries . 6 cheers504 people -
31. create 10 wonderful meals
1 entry . 3 cheers1 person -
32. list 43 men i wouldn't kick outta bed
7 entries . 4 cheers45 people -
33. Do something new every month
1 entry . 4 cheers789 people -
34. make a smaller ecological footprint
2 entries . 17 cheers1,014 people -
35. Get a tattoo
3 entries . 3 cheers21,983 people -
36. I want to leave a mix cd/tape on a bench
1 entry . 7 cheers83 people -
37. allow myself to be vulnerable
1 entry . 6 cheers27 people -
38. open myself to love
8 cheers4 people -
39. Always have something to look forward to
6 entries . 24 cheers149 people -
40. create the soundtrack to my life
1 entry . 13 cheers1,888 people -
41. Send a postcard to Postsecret
1 entry . 8 cheers3,005 people
I’ve been working at this goal, but I’m finding that my old friends are “old” for a reason. I’m a big believer that relationships are fluid and people vacillate in and out of each others’ lives at different times for different reasons. And no disrespect to my old friends – because they are all wonderful, important people in my life and I will always cherish them… but I am discovering that attempting to go back and re-create bonds with people from my past shouldn’t be my main focus.
Instead, I am going to work at developing deeper connections with the people in my life right now. I’ve recently had some experiences that have brought me closer to some of my friends in a really profound way. And those are the type of relationships I thrive on. Instead of trying to recapture something from my past, I can learn from it and focus on the present. I have the chance to show the people in my life what they mean to me and I want to make the most of it!
This is becoming a fun goal. I’m trying to re-discover my town because I’ve been here too long and have kind of settled into a routine of going the same places with the same people and doing the same things… and I ultimately just end up feeling trapped. I’ve always looked at Albany as my “transitional” place… I grew up here, then left, then came back to finish out college… but the reality is that I will be here until I leave for the Peace Corps and I want to start spicing things up.
2008 accomplishments to date:
- day trip to Saratoga… walked all around town and found this awesome record store
- Scotia cinema… an adorable hole-in-the-wall theater that shows recent releases for $4
- The Crossings (which is not something new, but is probably my favorite place in this whole area)... led to the discovery of a cute hippie store that reminds me of New Paltz
Upcoming:
- tickets to the Comedy Works downtown
- day trip to Bennington
- day trip to Lake George

