...I’ve got a weakness for the bad boys…
it's something unpredictable...'s Life List
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1. Skydive
17 cheers10,177 people -
2. go to Hawaii
24 cheers1,675 people -
3. Join the Peace Corps
3 entries . 31 cheers2,386 people -
4. dive with great white sharks
1 entry . 15 cheers18 people -
5. run a marathon
2 entries . 29 cheers10,448 people -
6. Take more pictures
13 cheers14,312 people -
7. Kiss in the rain
1 entry . 10 cheers14,574 people -
8. Walk Down Abbey Road
25 cheers46 people -
9. Go on a cross-country road trip
15 cheers135 people -
10. Get my Advanced SCUBA certification
13 cheers16 people -
11. be swept off my feet
12 cheers161 people -
12. learn how to drive stick-shift
9 cheers4,457 people -
13. live in NYC
15 cheers691 people -
14. go to fiji
7 cheers171 people -
15. go to a poetry slam
21 cheers39 people -
16. make my own clothes
18 cheers2,194 people -
17. Learn to surf
11 cheers7,358 people -
18. scuba dive in the caribbean
5 entries . 5 cheers17 people -
19. Learn to change a tire
21 cheers85 people -
20. go to spain
6 cheers652 people -
21. Have a piece of writing published
28 cheers7 people -
22. Stand on the corner of Haight & Ashbury
7 cheers15 people -
23. Visit a rainforest
19 cheers137 people -
24. Challenge myself
1 entry . 11 cheers148 people -
25. backpack through Europe
10 cheers4,959 people -
26. fall in love
1 entry . 7 cheers24,436 people -
27. go to Proxy Falls
1 cheer2 people -
28. shadow on a commercial fishing boat for a day
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29. star gaze on the beach
13 cheers2 people -
30. list 43 men i wouldn't kick outta bed
7 entries . 4 cheers57 people -
31. I want to leave a mix cd/tape on a bench
1 entry . 7 cheers86 people -
32. open myself to love
8 cheers3 people -
33. create 10 wonderful meals
1 entry . 3 cheers1 person -
34. reconnect with old friends
2 entries . 6 cheers445 people -
35. allow myself to be vulnerable
1 entry . 8 cheers27 people -
36. make a smaller ecological footprint
2 entries . 19 cheers1,040 people -
37. Always have something to look forward to
6 entries . 25 cheers111 people -
38. Send a postcard to Postsecret
1 entry . 10 cheers2,841 people -
39. create the soundtrack to my life
1 entry . 14 cheers1,808 people -
40. Get a tattoo
3 entries . 4 cheers20,232 people -
41. Do something new every month
1 entry . 4 cheers708 people
I’ve been working at this goal, but I’m finding that my old friends are “old” for a reason. I’m a big believer that relationships are fluid and people vacillate in and out of each others’ lives at different times for different reasons. And no disrespect to my old friends – because they are all wonderful, important people in my life and I will always cherish them… but I am discovering that attempting to go back and re-create bonds with people from my past shouldn’t be my main focus.
Instead, I am going to work at developing deeper connections with the people in my life right now. I’ve recently had some experiences that have brought me closer to some of my friends in a really profound way. And those are the type of relationships I thrive on. Instead of trying to recapture something from my past, I can learn from it and focus on the present. I have the chance to show the people in my life what they mean to me and I want to make the most of it!
This is becoming a fun goal. I’m trying to re-discover my town because I’ve been here too long and have kind of settled into a routine of going the same places with the same people and doing the same things… and I ultimately just end up feeling trapped. I’ve always looked at Albany as my “transitional” place… I grew up here, then left, then came back to finish out college… but the reality is that I will be here until I leave for the Peace Corps and I want to start spicing things up.
2008 accomplishments to date:
- day trip to Saratoga… walked all around town and found this awesome record store
- Scotia cinema… an adorable hole-in-the-wall theater that shows recent releases for $4
- The Crossings (which is not something new, but is probably my favorite place in this whole area)... led to the discovery of a cute hippie store that reminds me of New Paltz
Upcoming:
- tickets to the Comedy Works downtown
- day trip to Bennington
- day trip to Lake George

