I'm doing 38 things
My ex was not who I thought she was – I don’t think that person ever really existed – just an idealized someone I made up in my head. We are all guilty of this – we place too much emphasis on the positive qualities of someone we love thus ignoring the realities of the other person.
Jun Kit Man's Life List
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1. Know a little more about the people who subscribed to my 43 things list
3 entries . 22 cheers1 person -
2. stop feeling like a failure
7 entries . 121 cheers8 people -
3. not be afraid of eye contact
1 entry . 66 cheers76 people -
4. Get over my hesitation in approaching and talking to attractive women
1 entry . 45 cheers31 people -
5. Get a new girlfriend by wooing her with romantic gestures and my awkward charm
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6. Make a big enough impact on society to warrant a entry on wikipedia which is written by a stranger!
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7. host Saturday Night Live!
1 entry . 16 cheers32 people -
8. Be a season regular in an American television sitcom that last for more then 3 seasons
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9. Help others with their 43 things
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10. I would like to meet the people who subscribed to my list in person, to discuss their '43 things', and their definition of 'happiness'
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11. Get over 1000 subscribers for my youtube "naive panda" channel
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12. Take more pictures
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13. Go on a China roadtrip
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14. define happiness...
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15. Never forget my friends no matter how long i seen them or where they are in the world
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16. live in New York City
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17. Record a song
2 entries . 7 cheers412 people -
18. Hit someone in the face with a massive fish
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19. make someone feel special
1 entry . 11 cheers18 people -
20. Join a sports team and carve myself a body like an Greek God
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21. Have A Conversation With A Stranger, With Me Pretending That I Know Them.
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22. Share insights about how to use 43Things to best advantage, how it can be an aid to accomplishment, not a distraction
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23. Be on the front page of 43things
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24. Be on the front page of reddit
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25. learn Mandarin
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26. learn final cut pro
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27. raise money for charity
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28. create a vision board
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29. work for myself
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30. Learn to dance like a Backstreet Boy in a choreographered dance routine
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31. Have the means and talent to make whatever film I put my mind too
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32. Be the best man for Chi and Camilla wedding and throw a ultimate bachelour party in Las Vegas, NV
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33. finish what I started
2 entries . 4 cheers112 people -
34. work in advertising
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35. Work for a company that I admire
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36. improve my english
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37. live and work in another country
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38. Inspire people's dreams
3 cheers1 person
How I did it
It made me
Happy 
How I did it: Growing up in the UK it's always been my dream driving across America. Even before I could drive. The feeling of total freedom and adventure fills me with great excitement. One day my life ended up like a bad 1950's film and it all came crashing down. I got dumped by my gf and then I lost my job. I felt like the whole world was against me and it was then I took inspiration from the film "Dumb and Dumber" and I thought "fuck it" I'm … Read how I did it…
It made me
proud
How I did it: I always said to myself I should give blood but I always made excuses to why I shouldn't. My excuses range from feeling ill or I got no time but in truth I was scared. I hate needles and the smell of sterile medical equipment. The blood bank van was parked outside my house. I felt more determined then ever. So I marched to the blood van and rolled up my sleeves and said to the nurse "I would like to give blood… Read how I did it…
It made me
Indifferent 
How I did it: I only did this because of a social experiment about why human being lie. I decided not to tell a lie. I naturally have a very dry sense of humour which helps. I was ultra strict about what was a lie. So i wasn't allowed to be sarcastic or mis lead any one. Not like I was a consistent liar.When faced with a question where someone wouldn't like the answer. I would run out of the room or i will fling my body to the nearest window. … Read how I did it…
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Recent entries
I just re read my previous entry. I written that over 6 months ago and my life hasn’t changed at all. I still harbour the same goals but i’m so dam lazy and I procrastinate all the time.
I wish that in the next 6 months i will be doing something I love
