Justbehappy82

How do you become confident when all your life you have been told that you are not worthy and now opportunities come forth for you to let go and just fight for your future, but isn’t it overwhelming that all of a sudden you realize you have expectations of yourself along with others as well.

How do you know if you have fallen in love. As you grow up you realize those fairy tale love stories don’t exist. Love of course should make sense, with someone who complements you, supportive, understanding, trust worthy, makes you laugh, has faith in you and most importantly makes you a bette person. But now the questions comes down to…. what is the difference between someone you want to be with and someone you should be with. I’m trying to find out if my girlfriend is both these people.

The ability to let things go is not hard. I use to be able to let go for minutes, hours, days and finally 3 months!!! Why did it come back, why is it almost more painful now then before. The only thing that I find better this time is that I’m more focused on the underlying issue, and more scared then ever before. What should I do? Break up and stay in my comfort zone or Finally be happy and stop worry about her hurting me….. Seems like a simple decision but why am I having such a hard time deciding.