I know it’s going to be hellishly expensive to raise 3 kids in the modern western lifestyle, and I’m going to have to sacrifice a few things, but I feel I owe it to myself and my forebears to continue on the family line. I’d have even more kids if it was vaguely feasible on the kind of income I have but the fact is that more than two kids is the bare minimum.
Kalessen's Life List
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1. Have a consistent and well thought out personal philosophy
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2. Learn to ride a motorbike
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3. Get my weight below 100kgs
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4. Own my own property
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5. Have a biological child
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6. Read all Hugo Award winning novels
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7. Read all Nebula Award winning novels
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8. Visit Amber in Canada
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9. Ride a jetboat in New Zealand
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10. Own a car less than 5 years old
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11. take a cooking course
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12. Ride in a biplane
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13. Build a Rube Golberg device
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14. Take a beer appreciation course
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15. Take a cheese appreciation course
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16. Drive a Porche 911
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17. Fire a shotgun, rifle and pistol
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18. Take a glassworking course.
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19. Make AskWhyMiniatures profitable.
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20. Take a dancing class
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21. Complete NaNoWriMo successfully
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How I did it
How I did it: I think, for me in particular, coming to the realisation that it had been going on for far too long and something desperately needed to be done was a prime motivator, else I might have wallowed in misery forever.The first step was to remove the person from my life as completely as possible. That went very much against the grain as I do not like cutting or blocking people out, but after two years of trying to be bigger than my feelings, I … Read how I did it…
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