I know it’s going to be hellishly expensive to raise 3 kids in the modern western lifestyle, and I’m going to have to sacrifice a few things, but I feel I owe it to myself and my forebears to continue on the family line. I’d have even more kids if it was vaguely feasible on the kind of income I have but the fact is that more than two kids is the bare minimum.
Kalessen's Life List
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1. Have a consistent and well thought out personal philosophy
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2. Become a mid-level sci-fi guru
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3. Learn to ride a motorbike
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4. Learn to accept I live in a rental home
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5. Get my weight below 100kgs
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6. Build a garden water-feature from scratch
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7. Listen to Amber more often
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8. Make some new IRL friends
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9. Finish a Psychology Degree
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10. Own my own property
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11. Have 3 children
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12. Become a genuinely friendly person
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13. Become adept at Java programing
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14. Learn to make Flash animations
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15. Get a handle on CSS
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16. Design an awesome personal website
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17. Clear out the junk storeroom at work
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18. Find a new job.
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How I did it
How I did it: I think, for me in particular, coming to the realisation that it had been going on for far too long and something desperately needed to be done was a prime motivator, else I might have wallowed in misery forever.The first step was to remove the person from my life as completely as possible. That went very much against the grain as I do not like cutting or blocking people out, but after two years of trying to be bigger than my feelings, I … Read how I did it…
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