achieved this while on holiday in the summer. There was thunder and a few drops of rain but I’m not counting the goal as achieved until we’ve made love in a real downpour!
KateDyer's Life List
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1. Remember that things only happen when I get up, get out, and make them happen
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2. Be who I want to be rather than who everyone else wants me to be
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3. Not be scared to do what i want
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4. Relax and enjoy life more.
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5. make my decisions knowing that you regret more the chances you miss than the mistakes you make
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6. Stop thinking I have to be perfect.
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7. Tell the people close to me how I feel about them
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8. Live for today and not keep longing for tomorrow
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9. Be honest
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10. See a real life Giant Panda
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11. Visit New York and Washington in 2009
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12. Spend more time in my garden
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13. Spend less time doing housework
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14. Get to know my sister better
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15. Do a postgraduate course in history or sociology
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16. be courageous as often as possible
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17. become better at small-talk
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18. Smile more often
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19. Be happy with my body
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20. Have a brief passionate love affair
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21. Spend less and save more.
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22. Have a party just for fun.
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23. Continue going to see films on my own.
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24. Change my hair style.
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25. Go to a Glastonbury Festival
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26. have fun every day
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27. Stop saying 'sorry' for my beliefs and opinions.
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28. Ride a motorbike
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29. Grow a sunflower
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30. If I want to do something - do it now! Don't keep putting it off until 'tomorrow'
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31. Send more hand written letters and cards
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32. Now that I'm well on the way to discovering who I am, make sure I never lose sight of myself.
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33. Get a wig!
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34. make love in the rain
2 entries . 3 cheers2,076 people
This goal has become a little easier since I started to focus on the present. I try to enjoy each day and find the positive in it. That isn’t always easy but with a bit of effort I’m able to stop myself looking back on mistakes and what could have beens. Or from looking ahead and wishing the time away. I think this quote sums it up for me, ‘Enjoy the present each moment as it comes because you will never get another one quite like it.’
Now that I’m being more adventurous this seems like an increasingly good idea. Okay so it usually rains and the mud is legendary! It’s only for a long weekend and the atmosphere must be amazing. It just seems like one of those things I want to do once, so that I can say ‘I’ve been to Glastonbury!’

