I don’t know how long ago I did this, but recently the guy in question managed to have the luck to get me as his customer service rep when he called in to the call center where I work. We caught up briefly, and then we ended up talking online a few nights that week. I realized not only am I over him, but I am finally over what he did to me. We may even get to be friends again one day.
KnowingBurns's Life List
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1. get fit
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2. get better at keeping in touch with people who are important to me
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3. live in seattle
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4. Be more spontaneous and creative
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5. see more live theater
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6. drink more water
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7. Learn to play the piano
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8. See Dita Von Teese's live stage show
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9. live in new orleans
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10. become a burlesque dancer
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11. Learn to drive a stick shift
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12. improve my writing
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13. be published
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14. go on a road trip with no predetermined destination
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15. spend at least 10 minutes every day cleaning, organizing or decluttering
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16. remember that work is just a temporary intrusion into the rest of my life
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17. download diaries to CD
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18. find the line between healthy thinking and thinking too much
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19. go to the beach more often
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20. learn to belly dance
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21. leave the country
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22. be more confident
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23. cure my insomnia
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24. Love without fear
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25. change someone's life for the better
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26. accept myself
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27. forgive and forget
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28. forgive myself
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29. speak spanish fluently
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30. Let go of the past
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31. stop procrastinating
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32. wake up when my alarm clock goes off
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33. To live instead of exist
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34. Find a balance between the things I want to do and the things I need to do
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35. love myself
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36. Beat my depression
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37. Make new friends
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38. Learn to cook
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39. see the northern lights
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How I did it: A friend started dragging me out to local bars. That meant being exposed to new bands almost every weekend. Some of them I fell in love with. My original goal was to see more live music from the bands/singers I know and love, but I feel blessed to have learned that I can have an even better time seeing smaller bands with real talent. Read how I did it…
I did it. On April 19, 2007. The tattoo says “Strong at the Broken Places”. IT is from a Hemingway quote that reads: The world breaks everyone, and afterwards, many are strong at the broken places.
I pay my own living expenses, but my parents still pay the insurance on my car, which was part of the deal when they bought it for my 16th birthday. If I get back into school, I’m pretty sure that they will help with tuition…..but for the momemnt, I am financially independent. It feels great to know that I have no one to answer to but myself.
