LaChistosa

is back from Mexico and enrolled in school



I'm doing 41 things
 

LaChistosa's Life List

  1. 1. Get 2 more tattoos
    13 people
  2. 2. Write a will
    775 people
  3. 3. Stop thinking, start being
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    2 people
  4. 4. write everyday
    1 cheer
    259 people
  5. 5. Publish one novel
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    1 person
  6. 6. Become self-employed
    102 people
  7. 7. Live off of writing
    1 entry
    1 person
  8. 8. Buy a new house
    191 people
  9. 9. do comedy again
    3 people
  10. 10. work in television
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    9 people
  11. 11. Sleep deeply and well 5+ times a week
    1 person
  12. 12. Get a black belt in a martial art
    3 cheers
    28 people
  13. 13. Learn to cook
    8,172 people
  14. 14. Put on a show
    3 people
  15. 15. take singing lessons
    1 entry
    807 people
  16. 16. Learn Self Defense
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    250 people
  17. 17. plan meals for the week in advance
    2 people
  18. 18. have 6 weeks vacation a year
    1 person
  19. 19. make a six figure salary
    33 people
  20. 20. Skydive
    10,167 people
  21. 21. experience weightlessness
    158 people
  22. 22. get my driver's license
    5,037 people
  23. 23. Make as much quality time as possible with my kids
    1 person
  24. 24. Go on real vacations without worrying about money
    1 person
  25. 25. Get a movie role
    3 people
  26. 26. Write for a magazine
    259 people
  27. 27. Write a movie
    125 people
  28. 28. Write and perform a gangsta rap song (parody)
    1 person
  29. 29. Go see SNL in NYC
    1 person
  30. 30. get my drivers liscence
    184 people
  31. 31. run a marathon
    1 entry
    10,420 people
  32. 32. Get rich enough to spend 50 000$ in one month for fun
    1 person
  33. 33. Buy the perfect bicycle
    1 person
  34. 34. Understand my new house
    1 person
  35. 35. Get a handle on a budget
    1 person
  36. 36. Buy a scooter
    135 people
  37. 37. Buy the perfect matress
    1 person
  38. 38. Run 5 times a week
    23 people
  39. 39. learn to play the drums
    1,936 people
  40. 40. Have my own bar or café
    1 person
  41. 41. Fix up my house
    119 people

How I did it
How to have a natural birth
It took me
1 day
It made me
Happy


Recent entries
take singing lessons
My entire family are singers, basically 15 months ago

And I’ve always left it up to others. I have a good voice and I can sing along with them, but I have no freaking clue what they’re talking about when they start assigning notes or telling me I’ll be singing a ‘fifth above’.

I really need basic training, and I’ll have the perfect audience! My kids love when I sing, and I’ll be having a new baby in 3 months… I should go for it!



Be confident
Be confident! 15 months ago

I’ve come to the conclusion that there’s no reason not to be confident. We’re all people, most of us are insecure, all of us are not perfect. Why feel inferior?

I’m also not confusing confidence with the defense-mechanism overconfidence, which is… well, just as bad as being insecure and constantly apologizing for being yourself and taking up space.

So I’m just being me now, and taking up my space, and I’m allowed and it feels good.

As for body imagine, I try and take care of mine, but I’M pregnant now so I’ve got the new butt-padding and the stretch marks and the swelling legs but so what? When people see the stretch marks that looks like a large animal mauled me and ask what they are, my kids smile and raise their hands.

And when I give birth and I’m all saggy and smushy, I will own that. Because it’s my body and it’s amazing.

Keep at it everyone! It feels good!



stop procrastinating
Procrastinating? 15 months ago

For me, it’s not so much about the procrastination, it’s about not waiting and dreading things to come and making everything worse. I’m not a pro at being organized now, but as I learn to surrender to the ups and downs of life, I find myself procrastinating less. Whatever I’m dreading will probabaly happen. So what? Why am I wasting all this time freaking about it when I could just live now and and worry about it never? Or almost never.

Anyway, I’m trying to be better, and it seems to be working. So: yay me!



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