LadyTomiko

I don’t believe that I am very good at this. So I’ve decided to begin writing up my own research topics on what may appeal interesting as topics of conversation.

But the main problem is I don’t always have the time to adequately have the time to finish it, so I’m doing this in my spare time,

One topic I feel would make a conversation going would be Religion, this would be a great topic starter, I mean why not, but to start this, you would have to have a sufficient amount of knowledge to talk about it fluently enough to talk about it long enough , for example to talk about each religion in detail, this would extend the conversation as a whole, that’s what i feel, so this way the conversation isn’t cut to short and it can continue to flow, Any advice on what could be another ice breaker for another topic? I do realize some people aren’t too fond to talk about this relate topic to much so it probably can work either or, or it can backfire. So ideas??

Just a question for everyone here in genera. What do you think it is that makes us so anti-social?

Isn’t there a way that we can stop being this way?

With terms of my own story, it isn’t exactly easy for me being social, my main problem is that I don’t like big crowds because I get a serious mount of anxiety, an I’ve felt that it is better to get to knw a person with one on one conversation,

I feel really akward going to my club that I joined up at my university, and it isn’t easy since everyone there pretty much knows each other. The people there are friendly.

I’m not a judgemental person at all. But in the past I used to be really bitter, I was close minded, and I had ever realized that throughout my life until this point, I didn’t have anyone to lean on. or really hang out with.

I’m pretty much pushing myself to the extreme to not let myself waste my years of youth and reach age 40, where I will say, I wish… I had done that… gone to a party, paintball or other sorts of things.

Im writing this here, In hope this post will help you guys out. At the current moment I’m seeking out therapy so that I don’t remain this way forever- antisocial that is. I’m seeing a psychiatrist.

But just to let you know, there are plenty of days where i wish i could never leave my room, but life can be so much more beautiful, don’t let those overcome you.

Well, I recently met one, a japanese guy the summer of 2011. It proved to be a very valuable experience. I followed the advice of a good Friend of mine who is a Japanese Translation Studies Major and I decided to attempt “language exchange” , which is basically where you teach the other person English and the other person has to teach you japanese. The japanese person I met was a very carefree person, very in love with life. If anyone here is having a hard time trying to meet a japanese person in the city you live in, I would suggest trying “language exchange”. It is worth it. I will guarantee it. :)