LisaBise

To be fair i have a lot of good friends, i assume the reason they are such good friends is because i dont know them better. pessimistic, i know! OK, so i’ll share some examples of why they suck..
O, M, and S were my friends (whats worse is that i introduced them). B’s my best friend.

first S got mad because i drunkely hooked up with some guy who she apparently was in love with, but didnt care enough to ever tell me that she liked him.. and she knew i had a fat crush on him for like 2 years.

Then I secretly almost fell in love with M’s brother and one night kinda hooked up with him and never told, and denyed it to the end.. well eventually i came clean and she wasnt too mad, until the next day.. Well S and M bonded over this..

Then O joined in just to fit in with them like the loser that she is and so i was left with my ‘other’ friends… the one’s who seem soo dependable; once again because i dont know them better.
now me and my guy friend were going to parties and such, and ya i kissed him but seriously thats it. Well that got out, he hinted to O that we had sex, (who apparently was head over heels in love with him) and now they are all bonding over my alleged slut status. I’m so upset! these were all my close friends too!

Now, O, S and M are friends with this girl K,
who has only heard bad things about me from them and therefore hates me..

This leads us to my bff B,
who is friends with K.
I’ve known B since birth, we grew up together, and she has just moved out of state. I always had her there and now she’s sooo farway, and during all this!

Well, B has always ‘not taken sides’
between me and K,
and K sooo doesnt know me or have any reason (of her own) to dislike me but she does
and B stays completely out of it. I feel like she should be backing me up and being a good friend and she isn’t or wasn’t..

So B is in town,
screw O, S and M
(and K [i’m a hypocrete)]
but after taking B out and paying for everything not only does she not say thank you,
but she’s having a dinner-party.. just for her old school friends.. and all her other friends besides me. I’m devestated..
I didnt realize how completely upset i was until i broke down on the phone to my friend A

*B’s always been my bff, and there for me and all that good stuff, now what?
and should i tell O that i didnt have sex with that guy, or should i trust that we just werent meant to be friends if she’d throw it all away over a stupid man-whore friend of ours? Please tell me because i cant ask people here, it’d only make more drama!!

i just went to hawaii instead
which was great and i was tan in winter!

yes i’ve decided to become brazilian.. not like speaking portugese but just claiming brazil like soccer and just being hot in general; like everyone from brazil.

theres this guy who used to go to my school. he is a badseed, and i dont say badseed. He used to like me a while ago, but i wasnt sure if i liked him or not. He asked for my number right after this other guy who i was intersted in did. which is kinda weird, because it isn’t like a business card. I gave it to him because i cant say no. He dated my friend once a while ago and she cheated on him, then broke up with him. He said he was going to * _ kill her _ * it sounds weird, but a few day later him and a bunch of his friends showed up at her house her parents said she wasnt there, but thats scary! He was calling me and telling me how much he liked me and that i should break up with my boyfriend, and i said i wasnt going to do that. He’s been known to buy his girlfriends a lot of stuff and spend a lot of money on them, but personaly i dont want to be killed. He started kissing me once at school, and i pulled away and told him i had a boyfriend, but he didnt care. i told my friend about it and she said that she had been talking to him too, and he wanted her to cheat on her boyfriend (my cousin) what the F? it was so ridiculas, and no matter how scary he seems I was not going to be pushed in a corner. The next time he called me i told him i was with my friend, and handed her the phone. He was like uhh i have to go. I told him that it was messed up. but he kept calling, all through summer, and i’m going out with this guy now and he still calls. I’m scared to tell him to quit calling me but it isnt stopping. I wish i could’ve said no to start with, now i’m in a weird positon where i just have to tell him i cant talk, or be rude to him..

I like this guy and i think that he likes me because whenever we talk he touches me, not in a sexual way but just like contact. now if you dont like someone why would you touch them seriously think about that, some gross guy that you dont like, not gonna touch him, sexy guy with a six pack, might casualy touch his arm when your talking. Maybe i’m reading into this too much, but the way he acts towards me seems like he likes me. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. I need to break it off with him, but i’m not sure how. But his girlfriends really sweet and they are always making out. He’s not a player or anything and he doesnt do this to anyone else that I know of. Maybe it’s just flirting but i think it could be more..

we’ve been going out for a few months and i was the one that wanted him. I live pretty far but i used to go to school with him. over the summer i saw him and he was really hot, and once i started to get to know him i wanted to make sure he wanted me. When we started dating i was happy that i got him, but i could never see him. He didnt seem like he was going to be with me forever, but i didnt worry about it, because i had him. After some time he decided that he was * in love with me * I thought he just really liked me but he meant it. he never wants to break up and i’m just a teenage. I have cheated on him more then a few times, and he hasn’t even asked me. If he did i would tell him, but i am worried about how he’ll be when i break up with him. i talk to him every night all the time, but now I just feel like i do it because thats what i’ve been doing. He never wants to get off the phone even when its 3 am on a tuesday. He’s become too clingy and without touching him or seeing him he’s just a voice on the phone, my friend but not my boyfriend. I tell him i love him because its true, but its a different love then he has for me. eventualy i will have to be the one to break it off but I dont want to do it… help me

I learned that guys like that aren’t worth anything. * He would call me from time to time and ask me what i was doing, and all i would ask him if he had a girlfriend and he would say yea, then i would tell him i had to go, everytime he called. Until one time i asked him and he said that he didnt have a girlfriend. Let me tell you it felt so good to tell him “that sucks, i have a boyfriend, gota go!” And after not talking to him in 4 months (meaning me talking to him not the other way around) When i pass him in the halls he’s just like a stranger, i can look in his eyes without thinking a thing of it, and i dont hate him or resent him or talk about him. I’m soo glad i accomplished this, because for some time i really didnt think i could get over it and i hated him. Once you leave *DON’T go back!!

{color:green} Ok so first off yeah I’m a sophmore in high school but i have real problems so take me seriously. I’ve been going out with this guy i really do like a lot. I love him. the problem is{color:red} he lives 120 miles away. %{color:green} I used to go to school with him, but i moved for my high school years of school. Anyways He’s soo in love with me, and i love him too. I want to break up with him because I don’t want to be alone. I met this guy i really like a lot, but he has a girl friend he really likes a lot. I was going to tell him i liked him and if he broke up with his girlfriend i would break up with my boyfriend, but my friends told me that his girlfriend apparently was % %{color:blue} the nicest person that ever lived! % %{color:green}and they’ve been going out as long as i have been going out with my boyfriend. I don’t want to be one of those girls who break people up and cheat on their boyfriends, but i have cheated on my boyfriend and i know he would never do that to me. I feel really bad but i know he would rather not know, and he wouldnt break up with me for that. Every day i’ve been talking to him less and less until i can tell him that i love him, but i cant date him since he’s soo far away. He’s my saftey belt, i can always fall back on him, no matter what, i’m scared that if i break up with him I’ll loose my friend and not just my boyfriend, because he has become pretty much my best friend, and not my boyfriend. I don’t know the other guy that much but we get along so well, and we dance really well together, and just when i was going to give up on him he touched me. I dont know if you know what that feels like, but i want to be with him, but if he’s really happy i dont want to ruin that, and i might as well make my boy friend happy for now right? i mean its not like we’re together really? what should i do????? %

Ok well to start out I am a Freshman in high school, and i really like this guy. He is older and really cute. Anywayz the whole year has gone by and nothing, but like last month he started talking to me and walking me to lunch and whatever,So one day he kissed me and and i was stoked cuz i liked him this whole time and finaly he notices me. So a while ago he asked if i wanted to “hang out” now when people say that i think actualy hanging out not a booty call. So basicaly we hooked up and i felt kinda guilty, but hey you have to get to know people right? so ever since then he’s been trying to “hang out” more and he was calling me at like 1 am. so i refused to see him, cuz im not like that. So he finaly told me that if i kept blowing me off he wasnt going to talk to me anymore. So i went over to his house and yea. Seriously right after he picked up my clothes and told me to get dressed . i dont think anything has ever hurt me so much. The sad part was i knew it before and i still let him do that, hoping that it might lead to something. So today at school i was kinda resentful to him, but i hadnt given up. After school he came up to me and told me that %{color:red} He has a girlfriend %. He said she asked him out today. I said thats nice and walked away. I cried, but I knew better and I let it happen. So can anyone Please tell me what i can do to make him regret what he did to me?