Things are turning around I can feel it!! The dreams are there, but I awake and consciously tell myself that my new goals are worth sticking to and don’t even think of slipping cause that leads no where good. So far I am doing very well and am surprised how much lighter I feel already.
LiveAMagnificentLife's Life List
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1. stop gambling
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2. live in a foreign country
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3. keep in touch and tell all those close to me how much I care
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4. be true to myself and others
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5. start yoga
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6. gain muscle mass
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7. start swimming
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8. start running
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9. get organized
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10. become healthy
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11. love my family
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12. love my life
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13. be good at everything I do
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14. become more informed
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15. love myself
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16. become more peaceful
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17. save money
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18. Learn to speak Czech
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How I did it: I just put in my head before I went to bed that I was going to wake up extra early and go for a bike ride. And to my surprise I didn't procrastinate or make excuses to not go. I actually got up and went even though it was raining I still went. I am very proud and it felt so great. I just pray I have the strength to continue. This is very therapeutic for stopping my bad habits as well. :) Read how I did it…
I found my way here by some miracle and I am working on keeping that miracle going in the right direction. I have been dwelling in my own self made hell for way too long (21yrs). I thought crazy thoughts of one day being the winner of the world poker tour, I actually believed I was good. The problem was I was out of control, I could come out on top one day and then the next I would be on the bottom. The guilt and shame started to out weight the highs. I have come to terms with the fact this is not the life I want and I wasted way to much time on tournements and cash games at the local poker room. I lied about my where abouts to all and I shrugged my personal, family and work responsibilities so I could play either live or online. I missed out on countless family holidays and friends invitations time that I can’t get back. I made up false excuses for not attending many special occassions in all avenues of my life. I used money from our joint account that was for home expenses and bills, I took out title loans on all my vehicles, I pawned off or sold my valuables. I took out pay day loans and personal loans and high interest credit card loans. I moved checks from accounts to accounts in effort to make payments which were barely being made. I borrowed from friends and family. I was manic and out of control all for the rush of this game, I blame no one but myself and I take full responsibility in my recovery and in making everything right. Time to ask for forgiveness both from those I have hurt and myself as well. This is tough and very painful but these are the consequences and I did think of the alternative coward way out but I am not capable of taking the leap of losing my life, I want to live, and learn from my bad decisions…I want this miracle to continue and for the possibility of turning my life around.The rush I was prisoner to my own guilty I am writing a letter to myself to carry with me in the events that I get an urge. Dear Self, Breath in and out exhale the thoughts and desires, inhale and visualize you being active happy health participant in family and with yourself. Be honest you need not this insane thoughts, you need the peaceful thoughts. Adrenaline can come in many ways no need to count on the cards… better to replace that with riding the waves or bicycling down the shore. If it shall rain, take a walk in it jump in the puddles smell the freshness, rebirth in the tranquility. Calm down take a breath slow your racing thoughts and search out new thoughts of painting, swimming, talking with friends, playing the bongo’s, petting the cat’s, reorganizing the closet, redecorating, singing, dancing, Laughing!!! Letting those in my life know that I love them very much and prove it to them by being there and doing things with them, or if they are far call or write. Visualize the beauty that is coming into your life the peace the honesty. Feel the lightness of the weight that is lifted. Smell the calmness, no more stench of fear, breath in the freshness of the truth. Sense the changes around you, notice and appreciate all the things you use to take for granit. Enjoy the time, instead of rushing it, be patient, be honest, love, laugh and live!!!!
It is still really tough but I am doing it!! Trying to reprogram my thoughts as well toward my new goals!!! That part is exciting for I can visualize all the ease and peace and tranquility I will bask in once I get some more time under my belt. This past weekend I spent some much needed time with my friends and even got some sun :). Next will be to start on all those chores I put aside :). My spouse is still very very angry with me which hurts and I wish I could take all this back, but I must just move forward and do the things I can do. I am creating a new real reality and maybe in the future I can be trusted again. I am starting with telling myself the truth!!! Stick to the new goals and I will begin to breath more freely. My Abundance spreadsheet doesn’t leave my purse and I look at it for inspiration when I have my doubts. The spreadsheet shows me that there is an end to some of the heavy weight of the debts I have created upon myself. This is why I named it abundance for that is what I am working toward by honestly working to pay these off.
The picture looks beautiful, now I just have to paint it for real!! :D :)
Thank you for having this space and listening, I so enjoy coming here and reading about everyone else I have learned so very much, so far so good and I pray to continue!!
Lots of peace, harmony and tranquility to (((((ALL)))))
~~~live~~a.k.a.(Nicole)
