I have tried to keep this relationship together. But for some reason I don’t want to do it anymore. In July will be 9 years. I think that my husband and I want different things in life and neither one of us are willing to compromise. I am going to give it 2 months. Pay off more debt and then drop the “D” bomb.
Julie's Life List
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1. get out of debt
47 entries . 12 cheers10,994 people -
2. Lose 10 pounds
1 entry . 1 cheer5,930 people -
3. pay off my credit cards
7 entries . 8 cheers1,130 people -
4. pay off my student loans
6 entries . 1 cheer2,842 people -
5. Save money
13 entries . 3 cheers14,682 people -
6. Move to Georgia
4 entries . 4 cheers25 people -
7. get in shape
1 entry . 2 cheers9,356 people -
8. sell my house
1 entry . 1 cheer560 people -
9. I want to learn spanish
1 entry . 2 cheers48 people -
10. make alot of money
2 entries118 people -
11. spend less on groceries
1 entry . 7 cheers8 people -
12. Have a baby
6 entries . 5 cheers5,709 people -
13. learn to sew
4 cheers3,631 people -
14. pay off my debt
1 entry2,083 people -
15. read more
7,715 people -
16. get laser hair removal
1 entry . 2 cheers483 people -
17. be more positive
2 entries . 1 cheer2,132 people -
18. get pregnant
5 entries899 people -
19. be debt free
1 entry . 2 cheers2,031 people -
20. start a family
1 entry710 people -
21. get a divorce
2 entries289 people -
22. have twins
247 people -
23. exercise regularly
1 entry10,498 people -
24. become a morning person.
1,444 people -
25. Be happy with what I have
3 cheers251 people -
26. see all 50 states
1 entry328 people -
27. whiten my teeth
2,062 people
How I did it: Well, I had no idea were to start so I started to ask around. I know a couple of people in the biz and they pointed me into the right direction. I don't have alot of money and I don't know how to build websites so they refered me to Joomla. Read how I did it…
To getting this debt paid off. I haven’t been slacking too much. I have still managed to keep paying down debt. It just hasn’t been as much as I wish.
My husband hasn’t been bringing in what he used too. Yesterday I was talking to my mom (about general stuff) and she said that I don’t have to pay her for my student loans anymore ($600 a month). She brought it up, not me. So I am in my glory!! That $600 can now go towards my CC debt. YAY for me! I haven’t told my husband because I don’t want him to talk me out of it.
and starting to think about kids more often. I want to divorce my husband because we are not on the same page and I can’t see myself having kids with him (sad… huh?). I would love to find someone to share this joy with.
