I just started saying what I needed to ..First,I’d say it and the other person would get quiet for a sec or two..then ask me what the problem was and I’d just keep being honest and tell them..then they’d keep going..and win!!!After a short while I got over that too and made sure I just kept saying “no!”
It worked! You’ll always feel funny afterward ,even if you are right but you got your way and thats what REALLY matters(if you were right.)
My feet used to look terible and they don’t look so bad any more..I look cleaner and my clothes are nicer..once I get this degree under my belt I’ll have more money and in that..more ability to do and have and be more….Now that I’m more involved in my enviroment on a daily basis(not a home school kid or house wife anymore) I interact more and I realize that noone’s perfect or without blemish and theres no ned for me to ever feel uncomfortable just relaxing and being myself….
I don’t need to lie or come up with shit to say …you know?
did it and still have 30 lbs or so to drop..thats my fault
i feel the same but i look alot better r