It’s like two people playing catch. I say something and throw the ball to you to answer. You catch the ball, talk for awhile, then ask me a question and throw the ball right back. On and on it goes and we call this a conversation.
But some people want to hog the ball. I am sometimes one of those people. We suck.
The Fifth Amendment to the United States Constitution
“No person shall be… compelled in any criminal case to be a witness against himself”
It’s probably urban legend that doing this means you’re better at doing anything… except maybe better at how to tie the stem of a maraschino cherry with your tongue. Overrated! Focus your energy on how to be a companionable and sensitive mate instead.