MomKirstyn

I wish to get rid of some clutter in this place I call my home. With 4 children, a busy schedule, a busy husband, and a packrat mother.. (me) I just can’t seem to find an end to all of it. I did good for a little over a year then a pregnancy, new baby and then new dog, I just seem to be going in cirlces, it has gotten so bad i don’t even know where to begin.

I did manage to get ALL the paperwork sorted last week, 2 years worth of bills, statements, etc. I had 4 boxes full of stuff. I created files for everything for this year. So my goal it to stick to filing everything month by month and throwing all the junk away.
For today on to the next stack 4 children’s papers from school, what will I keep, what will I throw away. ?? hmmmmmmmmmm any ideas??

If you think about it someone HAS to submit. Say your husband wants to buy something, you don’t. There is no buying HALF of it, no compromise. The money is there, it is just a he wants it, you don’t type deal. So who submits, you or him.. If he doesn’t buy it he is submitting to you, if he does buy it you are submitting to him.

My marriage is a partnership. I hold 49% of the vote he holds 51%, many, many times I hold more. He has never done anything we don’t come to an agreement on, but in the end if push came to shove he gets the deciding vote, that is the way it should be. Men are designed to be leaders in their homes, they feel the need to protect and provide. Women would be so surprised to find how much SMOOTHER a marriage can run when it it working this way.

However. NEVER EVER be a doormat.. NEVER EVER be abused, NEVER EVER loose your spirit, your will, your goals, your person. A REAL man would not ask you to. He will LOVE you because you are strong and independent, he will WANT you to make your way in the world, he will LOVE you more than he loves himself, he will CHERISH you always, and will NEVER EVER harm you. He will do MORE for you than you could EVER do for him. (that is what makes submission so easy) A REAL MAN would die for you, is dying to protect and provide for you. You are his LIFE, his BREATH, his EVERYTHING..

I have approached my husband about this type of relationship, he is good with everything, him being leader, (he already was) etc.. just not the “spanking” part.. He is coming around some though. I pray he does, I REALLY just need to feel his authority sometimes and I NEED the reminders. Some habits die hard and I know this could be helpful. Glad I am not the only one with this goal …