Momof2boys

It seems like when it comes to my husband, I only see the things that he does not do. I try not to be a nag, but it seems like that’s all I am. He does things, that I guess I take for granted, Like he gets up every morning and goes to work, all day. He never calls in sick, unless he is dying. When it comes to the kids I feel like its all on me. The cooking, the shopping, the cleaning, the laundry, oh that laundry seems to reproduce in the hamper!!!!! I only want him to appreciate me more, for all that I do, the little things, that he never thinks about, refilling the soap despenser in the bathroom. Making sure the checking account is balanced, planning, shopping for, and preparing dinner everyday, and then cleaning up after. Does he ever stop and think of all the things that make a home run? Despite it all, I need a way to see his attributes, through the haze of exhaustion. Any advice out there? Or any one feel this way too?

Have the best outdoor party anyone has ever been to. Have a live band that plays a variety of music. Serve great food and drinks, and wow my guests.

I have a hard time throwing things out, or donating things I think I may need some day. Clutter all around, especially paper, like mail etc. I let things like that pile up and then it takes hours to go through it all. Keep clothes I have not worn in years. Hang on to a few skinny clothes, hoping I might fit in them again, LOL. Have a shelf full of old
albums that belonged to my dad over 24 years ago. They have not been played since. There must be around 200. They just take up space in my sons room on a shelf at the bottom, Why cant I let go of these? Any one have any advice? Am I crazy?