So I planned on starting this on Wed but I have been so busy organizing the house (per my other goal) this one has been on the back burner. I do plan on doing this, hopefully next week. I am going to sit down and plan out my school/work schedule and see where I can fit it in.
MsSparrow's Life List
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1. Quit Smoking
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2. stop procrastinating
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3. Be More Responsible With Money
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4. Become More Organized
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5. Be Healthy
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6. Start Running Again
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7. Volunteer
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8. live my life by answering this question every day: "what would you do if you knew you could not fail?"
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9. Become A Teacher
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10. be independent
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11. Learn To Cook
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12. Write A Novel
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13. Learn French
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14. Learn Photoshop
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15. read all the books I own
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16. make a documentary film
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17. identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money)
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18. Climb Everest
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19. Write every day
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20. expand my vocabulary
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21. Be As Self Aware As Possible
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22. grow my hair long
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23. reflect daily in a 'one sentence' journal
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24. post really, really, really short stories.
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25. Learn Ballet
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26. Buy More Locally Grown Food
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27. Do Yoga
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28. live each day as if it were my last, but learn each day as if I'll live forever
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29. have clear skin
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30. Be A Better Parent
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31. Ride My Bike
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How I did it: For a long time I blamed others for my unhappiness and made excuses for my bad behavior. I justified being dishonest by telling myself that I just didn't want to hurt others but in reality I didn't want to accept the consequences for my actions. It took an important relationship in my life to be in jepordy for me to realize that I needed to change. It wasn't easy though. Like any bad habit it took a long time for me to stop. But I t… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I went to college right out of high school and had no direction or goals in mind. After about a year I stopped going and started working full time. I kept wanting to go back to school and working towards a more fullfilling career but I felt like I didn't have the time or the resources. And then there was also the procrastination. When I got in a position to go back to school full time I kept putting it off. I was afraid t… Read how I did it…
41. Going to the zoo
42. Watching other people grow and meet their goals
43. Reading before bed
44. PBS
45. Watching nature programs and being amazed!
46. Doing something unexpected and nice for someone
47. Finding that perfect thing in a thrift store after hours of looking
48. Breakfast food!
49. Spending time with my parents
50. Looking through old photos
Part of this larger goal of being a better parent will be setting aside at least 30 minutes everyday during the work week to spend with my son just enjoying him. Life can be so busy that most of the time we spend involves doing task related activies. I really hate that. From now on, no matter how busy I am (or that he is for that matter) I want to spend time just chatting, or playing a game or doing something that he wants to do. I think it will do both of us alot of good.
