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Muhji




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Muhji's Life List

  2. 1. graduate highschool
    		254 people
  3. 2. work out more
    		846 people
  4. 3. learn to speak French better
    		14 people
  5. 4. gossip less
    		157 people
  6. 5. get my bachelor's degree in social work
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  7. 6. keep my house tidy
    		70 people
  8. 7. make new friends
    		12,788 people
  9. 8. be more social
    		5,108 people
  10. 9. eat healthier
    		10,148 people
  11. 10. drink more alcohol
    		57 people
  12. 11. go on a cruise
    		4,119 people
  13. 12. have pet chinchillas
    		1 person
  14. 13. send a postcard to Postsecret
    		2,848 people
  15. 14. think about the consequences of my actions and not the cool stories I'll get to tell later
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  16. 15. take more pictures
    		14,323 people
  17. 16. have a secret admirer
    		84 people
  18. 17. meet someone famous
    		568 people
  19. 18. learn a convincing Southern accent
    		6 people
  20. 19. write a screenplay
    		2,195 people
  21. 20. be more secure
    		32 people
  22. 21. be a better conversationalist
    		165 people
  23. 22. be self-confident
    		76 people
  24. 23. get plastic surgery
    		201 people
  25. 24. Get paid a good amount to do something that uses my unique skills and talents
    		1 person
  26. 25. learn sign language
    		7,700 people
  27. 26. go to Starbucks
    		12 people
  28. 27. go away to university
    		3 people
  29. 28. live in Australia for a year
    		15 people
  30. 29. go outside more
    		158 people
  31. 30. get motivated
    		393 people
  32. 31. go out more
    		577 people
  33. 32. go to a spa
    		391 people
  34. 33. start saving money
    		419 people
  35. 34. take an evening class
    		4 people
  36. 35. be a published author
    		81 people
  37. 36. be remembered
    		1,183 people
  38. 37. Eat normally
    		31 people
  39. 38. get married, stay married, and live happily ever after
    		1,892 people
  40. 39. go back to work
    		34 people
  41. 40. have more fun
    		1,208 people
  42. 41. study religion
    		38 people
  43. 42. change someone's life
    1 cheer     		1,313 people
  44. 43. Be able to speak my mind and not regret it
    		43 people
Recent entries
stop letting my anger show so easily
Untitled 2 years ago

It’s actually important to show your anger and use it. I am now using it to accomplish things and ensure that certain situations don’t happen again. My goal isn’t to make the other person feel bad or try to change them in any way, it’s to ensure that I don’t continue with the same pattern. I don’t let my anger get to the point that it has gotten before and I don’t resort to name calling or seeking revenge. I’m more likely to pick my battles now too.

Oct 13, 2007, 06:55PM PDT | 0 comments


Stop being so negative
Untitled 2 years ago

I’ve done so much studying on positive thinking that I find it impossible to stay upset for very long. I am also in a class called DBT which helps with all sorts of emotions and is especially good at dealing with the negative ones. The more I focus and put my energy into activities that help me to reach my goals, the more likely I am to achieve them. The less time I spend on negativity, the more time I have to enjoy life :)

Oct 13, 2007, 06:36PM PDT | 2 cheers | 0 comments


stop being jealous
Untitled 2 years ago

I realized that my jealousy stemed from my insecurities and that helped to calm me down quite a bit and focus on improving myself. I know that jealousy is really unattractive and proves that I lack trust in my partner and those closet to me.

I am able to notice jealousy a lot more now too and look at the situation for what it really is. I see some people acting really crazy out of jealousy and they look just that: crazy. It actually has the opposite affect in most cases. For example, a friend of mine freaked out really badly because she thought I was after her boyfriend. She set me up with his brother. They both didn’t know me. They both took an interest in me after her outburst though thinking that there’s got to be a reason that she’s so intimidated by me. It also reinforced what her boyfriend thought: she’s crazy. Had she just let them get to know me naturally, they probably wouldn’t have taken as much notice to me. She also lost me as a friend because along with her outburst she accompanied it with trash talk about me to make herself look good. Not only does she look unattractive to guys, but won’t have too many female friends at that rate too…

Oct 13, 2007, 05:59PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


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lose 20 lbs as quickly as possible! get another tattoo learn Swedish Learn to play a musical instrument be a holiday rep be a fashion designer french kiss Get back with my ex make a xanga layout StaticDiamond wants to improve my spanish read Transmetropolitan Make lots of worry dolls lucid dream get paid to write stories all day get stronger go on a cruise bigboehmboy wants to watch the imdb 100 best movies make my own clothes renew my canadian passport identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money) not worry about what others think of me witness the end of IE make my own prom dress graduate high school Practice "And How Am I Like This?" when judgementalism, impatience or annoyance raise their smug heads learn more about wine Nataleo wants to receive 50 postcards from postcrossing speak another language fluently
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