but really judging people less.
Ninkies's Life List
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1. Go on a missions trip
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2. go to Hawaii
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3. go on a cruise
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4. glorify God
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5. start a ministry
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6. discover who i am
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7. go to Dollywood
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8. Become less judgmental
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9. Go to a Dolly Parton concert
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How I did it: I would suggest getting a full set at a salon and then practicing with the fills yourself. The supplies you will need to do fills:Nail files (one rough, a couple finer)Nail buffing blockPrimerAcrylic PowderAcrylic LiquidBrush to apply acrylicBrush cleaner (acetone will work well for this)2 small dishes (one for liquid, one for powder)I would start with this to make sure you want to continue on doing them. If you decide that you want to do… Read how I did it…
and I feel like I have made my identity something that is related to my material possessions. I have almost always bought designer clothes and other items. I have always been so sensitive to people looking down on me for not having the “latest” of anything. People DO judge you on that sort of stuff. I guess what I am saying is I really don’t want to care anymore.
It just seems like this has defined me. What do I do with my precious time when I am not shopping or cleaning the “stuff” out of my closet to make room for new? I wasn’t raised like this. I was raised by a mom that didn’t care about that kind of stuff. People did look down on her, but she didn’t care. She was a wonderful human being.
I have traveled a LOT in my life and seen so much. I did all of this by myself, and this did help tremendously. I married late in life (at 44) and I have no children, so it wasn’t those traditional things that defined me.
I am tired of defining myself in meaningless ways. I know who (or, rather, whose) I am spiritually, so its not in that area whatsoever. I guess I am just wanting to leave the old materialistic me behind! I am so ready!
