PARVANOL

Sex is OVERRATED! Or so it seems to me at least, for random sex.

The art of making love is not confined to the excitement of the new, but to a much greater extent to the pleasure of the known.

Try to discover what your lover likes, ask them, watch their responses, listen to their breathing, go along the scale of tender to violent and find out what makes your lover want to give all himself/herself to you. Then do it again and again and again..find new points along that scale.

Do not be selfish, instead give pleasure..as much as you possibly can. Feed off their excitement, make them beg for more, make them beg you to stop. Never demand, let them pleasure you. Be responsive.

Smile. It shows them that you are happy, it encourages them to be happy too, to want to feel you closer.

Be gentle – carress their bodies, close your eyes and take a walk with your hand for as long as you like. It will be an extremely sensual experience for both of you.

Give your chest for them to bury their faces – he/she will feel ‘at home’, protected, vulnerable, able to relate to you.

Massage their bodies as if you are making love to them – slowly and with devotion.

Kiss/bite them where they like to be kissed/bitten.

And most importantly – do not concentrate on getting off, CONCENTRATE ON THE PLEASURE OF HAVING SEX. This, I found out, is the best way to bring me satisfaction regardless of the outcome. Some lovers have given me multiple orgasms, some have given me only a few if ever. But I swear I loved making love to them all, every time, over and over again.

This is the power of devotion,the essence of experiencing pleasure, the ability to make passion last, in short – the art of love-making.