I have taken steps to get passed all the frustration I impose on myself when I see people doing stupid stuff.
Scott Gowell's Life List
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1. become less enraged at instances of stupidity
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2. relax
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3. Be a better friend
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4. Start my own business
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5. stand up for myself
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6. Write "The Game" with my brother
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7. Contribute to an open source software project
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8. Become a better programmer
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9. Read the "Baroque Cycle" in its entirety
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10. Write a good book
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11. get in shape
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12. Visit a Country outside of North America
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13. Take a "one-year off" trip
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14. Start a company that survives longer than 2 years
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15. Finish designing that website
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16. Trust my instincts
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17. start a family
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18. See They Might Be Giants perform live
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19. be more decisive
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20. figure out what i want to do with my life
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21. Set up a home asterisk server
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22. find work I'm passionate about
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23. be happy with myself
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24. stop wasting time
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25. Learn an Eastern Language
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26. Kiss in the rain
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I will be 24 years old this November, and I think it is time for me to take steps to start becoming more independant. My parents are wonderful people, but I hate to impose upon them. They assure me that they love having me stay with them, but I have fallen into my sedentary lifestyle now that I am at home. My mom does my laundry, cooks dinner, does the dishes, takes after the cat (and changes my bedding on occasion). My dad takes out the garbage on Thursdays when he gets the paper, and they take turns getting the mail. I am a drain on their resources, I do not contribute more than a few bucks on occasion, and I can’t do this to them anymore.
Not to say that my reasons for moving are entirely for their benefit. I had become used to managing myself, and find it somewhat difficult having to check in with people on a regular basis.
I am scared of moving in with my friend Andy, because I know that it will ruin our relationship. He has been my best friend for a long time, but I do not take kindly to roommates very well, and when I get upset I botle it up. Then I blow up, and most times my roommate and I can’t be friends anymore, or if not that then we know we can’t live together anymore.
This last week and a half has really done wonders for me. I have really gotten some time to calm the hell down. Life could have been a chore as of late, but I have reveled in the joys of doing nothing instead.
