this is more of a long term thing and we just have to get to know each other before it happens. part of me just wants to rush into it and have kids while i still can. i will be 33 in may… so part of me is like, let’s get married NOW and pop out a baby. but that might not be the best plan. we need to have financial security. I mean, i think you can have a baby pretty much in your 30’s okay… but it’s easier in your 20’s for sure. once you hit your 40’s you’re over.
so i’m 33 now… it’s tempting to get married right away but maybe it’s better to spend a year getting to know each other… that’s what he wants anyways… and i could get pregnant at age 35? I don’t know. we’ll see where i am at that age, where we are in our lives, if we have any money, if i have any independence from my mom.