I don’t know when to give up this goal. Or when to move it down on my list. I feel guilty staring into her eyes in the photograph thinking I’ve abandoned trying to find her. I did so much but I feel like a bad person for not trying hard enough. Oh Maya, why didn’t you just get yourself found?
Prof. Wormwood's Life List
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1. get in shape
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2. Find Maya and bring her home
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3. Spread the word about "Heal Your Headache"
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4. Cheer people who have a "cat logo" just because...
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5. start a photo journal - take at least a photo a day to represent my life
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6. achieve my secret goal
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7. create small pieces of art, and leave them for people to find
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8. have synchronized walks with other 43thingers and post pictures here
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9. participate in The 43Things Watercolor Guild
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10. have a daily schedule so I don't feel so overwhelmed
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11. own an old Cajun print signed by George Rodrigue
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12. make sure that the people I love and care about know it.
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13. B.Y.O.Bag Project (A movement to save the environment one bag at a time)
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14. find a Sakura t-shirt to give my daughter
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15. run a 10 minute mile
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16. run every day
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17. be free of facial pain
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18. pass the physics PRAXIS test
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19. meditate every day
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20. Live with positive assumptions - assume the best in everything
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21. Be able to name all 16 of my great great grandparents
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22. Have an Art Show
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23. Watch my son successfully complete one semester of college!
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24. Watch my son successfully complete one year of college
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25. Learn to play Banjo
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26. learn to play Chopin's Nocturne in C# minor
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But I stopped all the running and weight lifting and hiking and now am terribly out of shape again. My weight is 15 pounds higher than it was 2 years ago and I feel yucky. Reading back over how happy I was to be working on this goal really makes me think. What happened to me? I am moving this goal to first place. Higher than finding Maya.
My son will attend his classes.
He will wear a bike helmet.
He will do his homework.
He will avoid harmful substances.
He will have fun and make lifelong friends.
He will ski safely this winter.
He will make good decisions.
We will have a warm and loving reunion at Christmas.


