I'm doing 43 things
It’s not that I don’t have friends who have similar interests who I would consider ‘cool’ or ‘genuine’ or ‘nice’ or whatever just to hang out with. That’s great and all, but it feels lately as though my daily battles are won and lost on my own, with nobody to care or even know about what really goes on in my life day-to-day. In short, my life features many other people in many places, and yet I feel alone in nearly every part of every day. No, I’m not a masochist. No, I’m not dramatic. No, I’m not a selfish asshole. Yes, I’m open enough; no, I don’t smother people. I just feel like I’m far too deep and genuine a person to be so isolated, even when my social life is seemingly thriving. What the hell is going on here?!? Is it because so many people think that any man who isn’t a power mongering, alpha-male, self-righteous ass is a useless pushover? (and no, I’m not a pussy)
HELP!!!!
ReDiddy's Life List
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1. stop drinking soda
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2. become a ghostwriter
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3. write something meaningful
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4. be more charismatic
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5. Visit Toronto
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6. drive on the autobahn
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7. test drive a ferrari
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8. Learn Japanese
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9. make better friends
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10. Make a huge positive difference in many lives
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11. love and be loved
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12. make more friends that live close to me
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13. Be at peace with myself
282 people -
14. Have more female friends
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15. Make more "real" friends
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16. Stop taking Jerks & Idiots seriously when they try to hurt me, after all they are Jerks & Idiots.
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17. take a helicopter ride across New York City
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18. beat social anxiety
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19. believe in myself more
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20. Make new friends
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21. meet more girls
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22. Believe that I'm just as good as everyone else
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23. Go to a Slipknot concert
27 people -
24. have incredible conversations
1 cheer68 people -
25. have more energy
956 people -
26. make friends
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27. find true love
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28. Get singing lessons
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29. be physically fit
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30. sleep better
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31. Be myself
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32. be more outgoing
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33. take back America from the jerks
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34. To live instead of exist
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35. Go to a Formula 1 race
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36. pick up and move to another city just to start over
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37. get better at keeping in touch with people who are important to me
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38. meet new people
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39. be thought of as intersting and fun
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40. get a girlfriend
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41. Fall in love
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42. be more social
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43. live passionately
1 cheer5,659 people
Recent entries
By all means, do this! Fuck what everyone else thinks; at the end of the day, you and you alone are responsible for yours life’s happiness and fulfillment. Why try to gain everyone else’s approval? Even they never seem to meet their own expectations, and even when they do, they’re burned out. Live your life for you – you and you alone have to deal with the consequences if you don’t, and a wasted, unhappy life is a steep price to pay.
On the other hand, men who are cool and confident are viewed as “boring” and “too nice.”
Why is this? Do healthy, well-adjusted men need to start being obnoxious jerks so that women will like them?
