Schmenny

Ok so I’m gonna take a stab at this. I just turned 14 yesterday and for a lil more than 2 weeks my mom hasn’t said more than 10 words to me. My entire life I’ve always been the ‘perfect little angel’ I was well behaved, perfect grades, and got a long great with my family. It was mainly because when my sister was in High school she and my mom had a lot of angst between them and never talked to each other. Well when my sister graduated they made up and have a pretty good relationship. But now I just started high school this year and it seems like everything I do is a mistake to her. Last year me and my best friend walked to the local grocerystore to by a present for a friend’s bday before I went off to babysit, my mom found out and thought I was sneaking out every week and I was grounded for the first time in my life….FOR 4 MONTHS. & I’m not allowed to talk to my best friend anymore b/c ‘she influences me to make bad choices’ Ever since that I’ve been trying to be the perfect child again, but I’m growing up and they’re not giving me any freedom, but they are giving me WAYY too much responsibility. My brother told me to go do something and then I got in trouble for it with my mom and now she hasn’t talked to me in over 2 weeks. My sister says it’s because even though she’s not that pissed off about the thing with my bro, but she keeps finding little mistakes that I made and keeps getting pissed off again..I just don’t know what to do. And the only reason she’s even said a few words to me was because she told me “Happy 14th Birthday” and a few random things. I’m sorry, that probably didn’t make any sense, but I’m sooo confused right now. How did I go from the perfect lil girl to the angsty screw up when I always do everything for them and mantain perfect grades and I haven’t talked to my best friend in a lil less than a year???