SexuallyExplicit

I tried a site. I have been fairly unwell recently so it gave me something to do that didn’t make me worse.

It was interesting. I cannot understand the people who live onthose sites, but as a plcae to visit is was interesting. Also the levels of response were flaterring and made me feel a bit more attractive again.

I have certainly found a friend or two as well as discovering that I am very fussy (or as one lady put it I have high standards).

At some point if I am bored I will write up a few of the people I encountered, but for the moment here are a few things I have learnt:

1) Everyone is clever n their own eyes.
2) Everyone has a good sense of humour.
3) Bad photos make a huge difference even to the people who say looks don’t matter.
4) Most people are scared to talk but happy to send messages on a site that if their partner ever sees the name is going to cause far more problems.
5) There are actually women who go on to a site like that to try and convert men to the idea that having an affair is bad.
6) A good way to spot someone clever or with a good sense of humour is that they are demanding it in a potential partner in a clever and humourous way.

Some of these I already knew and they have been confirmed, but some are new (number 5, I mean who would have thought it).

Oh, and of course number 7, some people will lie about anything, even where in the world they are, even though you will clearly find out when you try to come and see them…

Things I have done have been in public and in private, with one person and with more than one, planned and spontaneous, relaxing and adrenaline filled, in essence I have enjoyed a varied sex life.

Some of the things I have doen I cannot put down here as they are unique enough to get me recognised (What went on in a certain recreation ground being a good example), others are common place (like say a threesome with an audience).

I guess that in terms of positions that are not uncomfortable for one party or the other I have probably covered most things, so we need to look for suggestions outside of that. Perhaps involving props (I have never used a swing for instance) or toys (I have used a fair few, but suggest something).

Someone out theser must have an original idea. Suggest something. If I try it I will report back and you can try it or not with your loved one. If you are female and have no loved one I might even be persuadable to try it with you (well I did say might).

I am considering putting an advert on an internet site for the purposes of finding someone interested in an affair. I saw someone on 43t looking to do this and left him a suggestion and then thought maybe I should try it. I will think on it a while and who know maybe I will advertise for someone who wants and affair to meet up and chat. No point trying to actually advertise for an affair, they happen or they don’t, but it might be interesting to meet someone who was interested just to find out what that is like.