SexuallyExplicit

I took up this goal when invited to do so. The person I was invited by has since fallen in love. It would no longer be appropriate for me to help her to fulfill this fantasy so I am going to put it on hold until someone else suggests it.

I was much more turned on by my potential accomplice than by the idea of having sex in a plane. She seems happy now which is good, so I send her my love and best wishes.

Maybe one day when she is old and grey she will look back and smile. I hope so…

I encountered a fair few people whom I should list before I forget them. I wonder if I will?

I may have found someone special but, having not met her yet, I cannot be sure. Her pictures are attractive, her conversation is interesting and she herself is, I think, strong and independant.

When we meet she will be real. She is not quite local, but neither is she too far away. If it works it could be nothing or a short term thing, a one time thing or even a long term thing. Who knows? I will probably remain a long term friend whether anything happens or not.

There are a couple of others I encountered that shall probably meet at some point, which is interesting too. All in all it was a good and interesting experiment.

More on this goal when questions start answering themselves perhaps…

I tried a site. I have been fairly unwell recently so it gave me something to do that didn’t make me worse.

It was interesting. I cannot understand the people who live onthose sites, but as a plcae to visit is was interesting. Also the levels of response were flaterring and made me feel a bit more attractive again.

I have certainly found a friend or two as well as discovering that I am very fussy (or as one lady put it I have high standards).

At some point if I am bored I will write up a few of the people I encountered, but for the moment here are a few things I have learnt:

1) Everyone is clever n their own eyes.
2) Everyone has a good sense of humour.
3) Bad photos make a huge difference even to the people who say looks don’t matter.
4) Most people are scared to talk but happy to send messages on a site that if their partner ever sees the name is going to cause far more problems.
5) There are actually women who go on to a site like that to try and convert men to the idea that having an affair is bad.
6) A good way to spot someone clever or with a good sense of humour is that they are demanding it in a potential partner in a clever and humourous way.

Some of these I already knew and they have been confirmed, but some are new (number 5, I mean who would have thought it).

Oh, and of course number 7, some people will lie about anything, even where in the world they are, even though you will clearly find out when you try to come and see them…