SlayneB

life on life's terms...



I'm doing 26 things
 

SlayneB's Life List

  1. 1. keep a journal for a year about doing The Secret.
    25 entries . 45 cheers
    1 person
  2. 2. keep making work my good friend.
    6 entries . 9 cheers
    1 person
  3. 3. stop trying to get people who don't like me to like me.
    6 entries . 17 cheers
    1 person
  4. 4. let the mediocre days Fall Away and replace them with much better ones by doing at least one NEW AND FULFILLING thing in October, November, and December of 2009
    13 team members . 2 entries . 5 cheers
    27 people
  5. 5. do NaNoWriMo 2009
    4 entries . 6 cheers
    25 people
  6. 6. find at least one thing each day that makes me happy and record it everyday for a year
    264 entries . 23 cheers
    1,328 people
  7. 7. Let's Clean Together
    17 team members . 1 entry . 4 cheers
    24 people
  8. 8. Get my LPN
    20 entries . 32 cheers
    19 people
  9. 9. Focus harder on my studies
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    3 people
  10. 10. pay my bills on time
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    325 people
  11. 11. step away from the computer. Step away!
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    7 people
  12. 12. Declare the 8th of every month "Get in touch with your inner child day" and invite others to join in.
    4 entries . 12 cheers
    6 people
  13. 13. encourage 43 Thing Aquarians to add their names to the 43T Aquarius list.
    6 entries . 4 cheers
    1 person
  14. 14. continue practicing marriage enrichment
    8 entries . 21 cheers
    2 people
  15. 15. 2009: Ask my husband on one date a month
    4 entries . 17 cheers
    3 people
  16. 16. go to more AA meetings
    3 entries . 10 cheers
    4 people
  17. 17. live comfortably within my means
    5 entries . 44 cheers
    12 people
  18. 18. find a nice little thing somewhere on the street
    5 entries . 11 cheers
    11 people
  19. 19. learn to identify local trees and plants
    2 entries . 20 cheers
    5 people
  20. 20. visit unique places in Florida
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    3 people
  21. 21. Post Random Ramblings
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    3 people
  22. 22. Letting go
    2 entries . 1 cheer
    6 people
  23. 23. The Goddess Club
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    26 people
  24. 24. Honour my inner Goddess
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    12 people
  25. 25. get all my sabbat items and decorations in order so that when I need them, they are good and all ready to go!
    6 entries . 3 cheers
    2 people
  26. 26. Become a registered nurse
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    158 people

How I did it
How to give 100% effort in all my relationships; initiate, reciprocate, and communicate
It took me
3 months
It made me
a better person.


How to create my own stimulus plan by doing at least one NEW AND FULFILLING thing in July, August, and September 2009
It took me
3 months
It made me
motivated.


How to express my opinions openly yet respectfully on 43T,diplomatically extricate myself from disagreements that descend into incivility,avoid inflammatory threads,and remember that I will never convince everyone to agree with me (nor is it my place to do so).
It took me
30 days
It made me
quitely serene.


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Recent entries
Declare the 8th of every month "Get in touch with your inner child day" and invite others to join in. (read all 4 entries…)
November 8: walking and playing 2 hours ago

Hmm, the 8th of the month.

I shall go for a walk (Je’s at work) and play in the strong breezes of Hurricane Ida. I love the winds!

Then I shall come home and have a chocolate brownie. Yummy!

Off to play…=)



continue practicing marriage enrichment (read all 8 entries…)
We have decided to enhance our marriage 3 hours ago

by going to a meditation temple together. I used to belong to one before I met Je, and received initiation through it. Je has always wanted to check this out, and brought it up to me.

We all witches, and always will be, but are becoming increasingly disillusioned with the rampant addictions of the local community, and the ill-health that follows. We do not know of many couples (if at all), or high priest/ess in our local community that does suffer from the lack of examination of their shadow selves. Many are young and dying from their own abuse. We believe our health and well-being are the result of what we do, eat, drink, think = spellwork of ourselves. This puts us in a distinct minority, with a certain amount of scorn heaped on us (‘oh poor naive children, don’t know how to live’.) We also don’t want an open relationship either, and am tired of the pressure from certain quarters.

So we have decided to become completely eclectic, fade away from our coven gracefully and without drama, and part of our new path is to explore meditation together at a Hindu temple. I really enjoyed this before, love the Hindu gods and gurus, and was always impressed by the health of those involved, who often lived into their 90s independently and joyfully, and by their solid marriages. So this is our next step in spiritual living with our gods. We will still do our private rituals to our gods, attend lots of pagan events, socialize cheerfully, encourage heartily, but we will affiliate with none. We realize we make lousy blind faith followers of any religion. This past Samhain and it’s sorrow has finally nailed that point into us.

So we believe this is what our gods are calling us to, to move to the next level, will strengthen our marriage even more, and help our foundation of health in all departments.



find at least one thing each day that makes me happy and record it everyday for a year (read all 264 entries…)
November 7: Hurricane winds 18 hours ago

We are getting the breezy outer bands of wind from Hurricane Ida. We don’t know if she is coming this way, but if she does, I would miss school. That’s a nice thing =)

I’ve always loved this wild crazy wind from the storms, with the air of danger and unpredictability. We’ll know more tomorrow.

Whoda thunk a hurricane in November for the northern hemisphere?



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