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Posso farcela - refining her Things till birthday's Life List
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1. Do my "Portion sizes are an important determinant of obesity" assignment by Wed 22nd, August
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2. Eat 2 apples, 2 carrots and 2 oranges every day for a week
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3. 54 days until my birthday date of Sept 27 to emerge a refreshed person in many ways.
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4. Not feel guily over not getting on with my Mum
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5. Decrease my Real Age!!
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6. Try to alter the way I emotionally react to halfwits
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7. Have jam and cream scones at The Botanical Gardens restaurant
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8. Make some new friends
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9. Stop sabotaging my success
2 entries . 4 cheers1 person
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says I should be grateful to have a Mum and aren’t I lucky she’s alive and wouldn’t I miss her if she was dead…
DON’T!
That is unhelpful and patronising. She is insulting, has no qualms about being spiteful, complains, never lets it be ‘my time’ and quite frankly after todays little tantrum then I’ve officially had enough. I am not going to have her be the negative thing in my life and until she realises that she’s the reason everyone has alienated her then I refuse to put myself out there again.
Nope it’s not the time for me to be the bigger one, the generous one, the one who blah, blah. Sometimes you have to do what you believe is right for you.
If so many things about me enough that she feels obliged to tell a new friend of mine these things, then frankly I don’t see why she would even want to be around me! I know I don’t want to see her until she can admit that she is the one that errs.
