I feel ill and have a busy day ahead, but I’m still managing to feel quite good and get on with things. It’s just a cold after all. :)
Stephie85's Life List
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1. be more positive
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2. Find the fun in life again
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3. Slow down and live in the moment
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4. Improve my speaking voice
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5. Dress a bit more girly.
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6. Direct Music Videos for unsigned bands
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7. Do well in my final year of uni
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8. Become a successful children's author
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9. publish a book
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10. Give up OCD totally! Get rid of my anxiety totally! And find coping methods in the mean time! Change my life!
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11. Love myself just the way I am. My body, hair, face, personality and ever changing style. The whole package!
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12. Learn to play guitar- Hopefully become as good as my dad :)
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13. Learn to control and successfully live with my mental illness
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14. Lose the fear!
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15. Believe in myself
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16. pay attention more
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17. not rely on other's for my own happiness
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18. stop apologizing so much
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19. Live fearlessly and passionatly
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20. don't overthink things
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21. Let go of the past
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22. Be more spiritual
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23. stop being afraid of what others think of me
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24. Be more sure of myself- Develop a thicker skin
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25. Become healthier
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26. Make the world a better, safer place in any way I can
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27. cook more
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28. Make something with our production company
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29. See the northern lights
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30. Learn to drive
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31. Sky Dive
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32. Buy a Bike
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33. donate 50,000 grains of rice through freerice.com
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34. Learn to skateboard
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35. Learn to walk in high heels
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36. Learn to play the violin
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37. Become a stronger swimmer.
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38. Buy a house
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39. Sort out a pension plan
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40. Finish my Open University English Lit degree
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41. Do an art course with London Arts College after I graduate
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42. learn to snowboard
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43. Go to an all girls Surfing Camp
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How I did it: We were going home from somewhere, went to a service station to buy food and then randomly went to Martin Mere. It was really lovely and relaxing. It was quiet even though it was a saturday. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I just wrote a list of things that I had always wanted to try, like dance lessons, joining a uni society, writing for the uni paper, all sorts. And then I went out there and did them. No more excuses, no more putting anything off. I just went out there and did it and it turned out to be one hell of a fun and exciting year. Read how I did it…
How I did it: Yep, you read right. I didn't go for one year. This is down to my anxiety. The only way I could go was to force myself. I started off picking something harmless, something I knew I would love (new Harry Potter in my case.) From here I'm going to get more adventurous again, seeing District 9 soon. The best way to break a habit and start a new one is to face the fear and force yourself through it. You get to the other side and realise that … Read how I did it…
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I have no time for anything complex right now because I am so busy. But I want to introduce something simple, but fulfilling into my life, like praying every day and meditating every day for a short amount of time. It’s just getting it into routine everyday.
This seems to be something that happens in stages. I come out to people that I’m bi, I start to dress how I want. It doesn’t happen over night, but it seems to develop gradually. I hope it keeps going. :)
